How do you get rejected your whole life and not be bitter?

KlugOz · 2023-10-12T18:52:30+00:00

Bitterness is a natural and human reaction. The disconnect is that women and a good number of men don't consider unattractive men human

When women make posts claiming to be bitter about dating, regardless of the reason, they get support in the comments

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-10-12T18:30:27+00:00

Speaking from experience-you grow numb from it.

Cat_lover_492 · 2023-10-12T22:37:53+00:00

I grow hateful with each passing year. I think hate and being bitter is honestly the least fucked thing to do when you're rejected by everyone

I try to manifest the hate into myself as best as I can but deep down I know that it's others not me that are the problem.

UnknownAspectt · 2023-10-12T18:50:44+00:00

Most of life is bitter and hardship in nature

Most people don't know how to deal with reality, which is that life is mostly bitter.

So learning to deal with that gives you something others don't have.

SpaceMonkey77 · 2023-10-13T02:43:39+00:00

Easy! Don't approach women. If you're an unattractive man you have no other choice but to accept the fact that no woman will ever want to be with you. It's easier this way. You save yourself from experiencing all that anxiety, pain and humiliation for no reason whatsoever.

Dando-1 · 2023-10-12T18:51:39+00:00

When i was 17 i got brutally rejected by a girl from college, i asked for her number when i seen her after class and she gave it to me.

I thought i was in, told my boys. i was like 'yes boys im in'

Messaged her and she replied 'I actually got a boyfriend with 2 laughing faces' I was devastated. So i done reverse psychology and said ' Okay, but i was just gunna ask about the homework we got to do'

Bitch didn't reply,

seen her next day and i said 'what was that text about' and she said oh dw and got all red.

I played it off like a g. remember boys, reverse psychology.

NoirPill · 2023-10-12T19:02:27+00:00

You cant.

Make them suffer

uselessloner123 · 2023-10-12T19:28:05+00:00

I’m trying to change my location and move.

It’s my last hope really to find someone.

Substantial_Video560 · 2023-10-13T07:48:56+00:00

By learning not to give a f..k and becoming distant and indifferent to society as a whole.

To be honest I'm really only interested in myself now.

Petrosmine · 2023-10-12T18:37:12+00:00

just be autistic or low iq, you'll find ways to convince yourself thats its your fault and not your genetics

DueAd3625 · 2023-10-13T02:10:30+00:00

fakecel if you actually have friends. i cant make friends, get a date, and i struggle getting a job. the only jobs i get hired at are high turnover get hired over the phone jobs.

shadowcat211 · 2023-10-12T21:47:58+00:00

I realized the problem is with me so I learned to hate myself for not being what women want.

Rammspieler · 2023-10-13T03:39:22+00:00

Who said I'm not bitter?

I just recognized that indeed bluepillers are right and it is my fault. It's may fault for being born autistic and ugly. I wouldn't blame normies for wanting me dead. O wish I were dead too.

EugeneCezanne · 2023-10-13T04:05:36+00:00

Beats me. Seems like a perfectly natural source of deep-seated resentment.

However, resentment tends to seek an outlet. The recipient of that resentment may not be at fault or otherwise deserving of it. Extending this topic a bit, I'd say that when people criticize others for being bitter, what they're really trying to communicate is that said person it aiming their response to their own bitterness at the undeserving. In cases like this, it usually means that a man with the misfortune of being less attractive (in whatever meaningful way) or lucky than other men expresses these feelings as criticism toward women in general.

Familiesarenations · 2023-10-13T07:21:16+00:00

Everyone faces rejection. There's no reason to get bitter and you're not special.

Georgeoverthere · 2023-10-12T19:25:31+00:00

My ex's boyfriend recommends you take the rejections as an opportunity to learn and grow. It always helps to get feedback and maintain healthy habits. Every no is also one step closer to a yes.

Cold-Pineapple2784 · 2023-10-13T13:52:02+00:00

Be careful generalising “women” all in one category. Why are you being rejected? How do you know it’s rejection and not a sign of something else going on 🤔

gothicdeception · 2023-10-13T16:24:35+00:00

I personally call it vexation. I'm vexxed by life. Anger means I blame other people...or I'm rude to successful people in bitterness. To be vexxed is somewhat different. And everyone can relate to that feeling of things could have been different if x y and zed was in place...I feel like blackpill can be needlessly single minded...as if no one else has issues 🤓

Title	How do you get rejected your whole life and not be bitter?
Author	Odd-Diet6704
Upvotes	39
Comments	119
Date	October 12, 2023 6:28 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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