Can you actually 'improve your personality'?

Still-Courage4513 · 2023-10-25T04:17:00+00:00

Personality is mainly determined by genetics, in utero and within the first 3 years of your life. So no you can’t change a fundamental part of yourself that like looks, is also genetically determined.

Now can you make yourself a doormat to appease bluepill cucks and feminists? Sure. Can you ignore the reality of the BP that is right in front of you and become a good little male feminist and simp for a crumb of pussy? Sure.

kukkle1111 · 2023-10-25T01:17:49+00:00

Your personality and temperament, like all things, is largely genetically inherited.

So, no.

azbgames · 2023-10-25T05:04:08+00:00

Yeah you can. Won't do shit for your attractiveness though.

TheForspokenOne · 2023-10-25T05:48:41+00:00

By improving your looks, that’s how you improve your personality.

There’s a well researched effect called the Halo Effect ffs

Chemical-Night-3433 · 2023-10-25T01:16:33+00:00

Can someone please tell me what bluepill means? And I’ll tell you if I agree with it lol I don’t know any bluepiller that says personality is the end all he all

SianOiseau · 2023-10-25T01:36:41+00:00

Take care of your mental health: sleep, diet, sport and therapy/meds if it's needed. Taking a break from social medias as well.
Improve your social skills: initiate small talks as often as you can, talk to people around you and try to listen to them and remember what they're telling you so you could talk again with them etc.
Put yourself out there. Go volunteering, go to some meetups, join church, whatever suits you better.

In case of autistic spectrum there are therapists working specifically with people on the spectrum that can help to learn navigating social situations better.

There are limits what you can and cannot improve, but trying your best doesn't hurt and it usually does increase your chances. Moreover, it's better to be healthy and sociable and single than single, unhealthy and isolated altogether.

Zabadoodude · 2023-10-25T01:52:44+00:00

Complete 180? No. But it is possible to make significant improvements. If you socialize more you will get better at socializing without seeming awkward and weird. If you have more diverse, interesting experiences you will have more interesting stories to tell, and will be more likely to have at least a few things in common with most people.

RopeorDope1 · 2023-10-25T01:25:47+00:00

No group is a monolith. The advice that some people gave doesn't mean that all think that.

Personality is a mix of environment and genetics. Certain aspects can be improved upon while others are harder to change. One example being how social you are. Assuming that the person doesn't have a major mental issue, becoming more sociable is something achievable. That exact path is different for everyone. Some can go from being solitary to the life of the party. While others will realize they enjoy socializing but for bursts at a time and with smaller groups.

ROBYoutube · 2023-10-25T01:23:13+00:00

Sort of. Ok, so clone you right now; one clone continues to whine about women online, the other one does not whine about women anywhere, but still blames them for everything like the whining clone. You have essentially 'changed your personality', because although you both think the same things, one is not a whining bitch about it.

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SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-10-25T13:38:22+00:00

I feel like, to some extent, but it's not easy and honestly might not even be possible in some cases

I think controlling anger, learning more about things, and taking the time to be more outgoing towards others, these are things you can do to improve personality. When people make complaints about how some men get overly emotional, are unwilling to see things from their perspective as a woman, and how they don't like guys who keep to themselves these are things that an effort can be made about.

However, like in all things, your mileage may vary. I think it's not impossible for a man to learn to be funny and that's a personality improvement right there but nuance is like if you're ugly or autistic and these things make your jokes not land then we're dealing with a whole other set of problems than fixing your personality where as others who have the same personality type as yourself can also be successful for other reasons outside of their own control.

tacticaltossaway · 2023-10-25T19:53:59+00:00

People don't really change. They can, however, get much better at faking it.

Skynet_Mainframe · 2023-10-26T06:14:40+00:00

No, you can’t

Title	Can you actually 'improve your personality'?
Author	SaltySyndicate7
Upvotes	5
Comments	45
Date	October 25, 2023 1:06 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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