Is she going to like your personality then? Say you both get angry - is she going to think you're such a wonderful person I can continue to overlook undesirable looks? If not then what exactly would be keeping her in the relationship? Every relationship has arguments at some point especially today with sharp political divides over many issues that quickly turn hostile, cancel culture as well as the toxic positivity that increasingly permeates all kinds of relationships. Making people very quickly consider people haters for disagreeing with them.

And stay for money? No, cost of living crisis. Most men arent earning 6 figures and are poorly educated compared to women.

Stay for memories of past fun times? Past memories of "fun" is going to beat present feelings of anger in an argument? And the fun she had with you would be so much better than with her friends that she just cant let it go? Yeah no. When your relationship isn't anchored by mutual physical attraction, you are one argument away from it ending completely. And you're supposed to invest resources and your life in these relationships? When you aren't physically attractive dating makes no sense at all.

Because if you're too agreeable, guess what, she gets bored and the attraction goes away.

So a physically undesirable male would have to thread this fine line of being interesting, but not too disagreeable. All the while stressing out over her loyalty cos you know her interest is being held on by a thread.

Thats why I laugh when I hear bluepillers say it's not about looks, personality can still save you.