Virginity and red pill

Ok-Calligrapher7 · 2023-11-28T09:01:49+00:00

Yes red-pillers don't seem to have negative judgements about men who are not virgins, yet negatively judge women about it. Double standard

IrishShee · 2023-11-28T12:23:18+00:00

I find any man who isn’t a virgin himself looking for a virgin girlfriend 1000% creepy. It grosses me out the way redpillers talk about virginity and sexual promiscuity in women.

DearFellowSurvivor · 2023-11-28T18:24:14+00:00

I believe that many of them are in an older type of thinking of a woman being a virgin meant some magical thinking and it was going to solve all the relationship issues if they were a virgin. Obviously this isn't true, but when you're raised with that idea, it's hard to look beyond it.

Personally, I waited into my early 20's too. Mine was due to my faith, but also because I was deathly afraid that an accidental family was going to derail my goals and ambitions. I wanted a family, but I wanted to wait (which I did end up doing as I didn't have a baby until I was 28).

In the time prior though, I definitely did not have a shortage of boyfriends that desperately wanted to take it from me like it was a The Golden Snitch in Quidditch. 😅 It was very bizarre to me to see such an obsession with it as if it. Boyfriends, MY MOM, and pretty much everyone obsessed. It's weird.

Rook_Cross · 2023-11-29T16:43:14+00:00

They're trying to prey on someone inexperienced to take advantage of them. yes it's creepy. Doesn't matter if in part it stems from low self esteem and fear. They're prowling for someone they're not approaching honestly and who's meant to be someone they're looking out for. A lot of them also talk about how women should marry young, even under 18. There is some desire for childlike qualities with a lot of them, even if 18 and up. Wanting to have sex with someone for such a reason is greatly creepy.

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2023-11-28T04:05:14+00:00

There isn't anything wrong in a man wanting to marry a virgin woman if he himself is also a virgin. No hypocrisy there. But perhaps you are referring to something else.

octave120 · 2023-11-28T15:51:49+00:00

Creepy, yes. In some subs, I’ve also seen men with porn addictions make very judgmental statements about non-virgin women, and it makes me sick.

Title	Virginity and red pill
Author	Admirable_Bid_9193
Upvotes	19
Comments	23
Date	November 27, 2023 11:03 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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