Im 30, married at 24 to a man. We were both out and he was recently out of college. I was still in college. Point being, very young.

We moved to another state across the country where we didnt know anyone. It has always been easier for him to make friends. So most friends we have are on his side.i am extremely depressed (which i think contributes to my inability to be happy and make friendships).

We have a house and 2 dogs. Two cars (one of them a brand new tesla). Both cars are on both are names.

I am terrified of divorcing him because the big shift on my life, fear of losing my dogs, house, and cars. But mentally/emotionally, I cant take it anymore so really contemplating doing it.

Can someone give me advise if you had a similar experience on:

How did it go? How long did it take to get a normal life? Did you buy a new house, rented afterwards?

Anyone knows what could happen with the dogs?

Please help. Dm if you prefer to talk privately.