Hi, I am engaged to a somewhat wealthy man. We both discussed what we want in the prenup and agreed. I am now pushing for lawyer drafts(he's "lazy" about this) and I revisited the conversation.

Turns out he wants to give me a lot less than discussed, in the case we divorce. i am livid and feel so betrayed. He usually never sticks up for me if his sister and friends are extremely rude to me either and I feel so angry. He's like "why do I have to pay you for your time sucks for you I'm the one with the money."

Now I feel I don't even want to talk to him until I just get the lawyers talking but I am 29 and I can't tell if things go south if its this bad right before an engagement. He doesn't really care if I cry either it seems when we fight, and once made me cry in public even.

It seems that he wanted to make me sign the prenup when we're heavy into wedding planning so I feel more forced and now I told him I won't be putting the down payment at the venue until I'm happy with the prenup.

Now I feel so much resentment and I won't accept gifts from him, I pay him back for any dinners or trips he gets me, and he gets upset by that but I truly don't want any kind gesture from him, so I resort to being petty.

I'm over it, we've had issues in the past with him making comments about other women (he stopped) but idk if all this is salvageable