Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation?

Lucazzz14 · 2022-08-15T17:34:33+00:00

You don't want to go balls deep and talk about it straight away.

Banter with her. Get her laughing.

You know when girls try and challenge you with "I bet you say that to all the girls" or "If you play your cards right" or some other crap to see if the guy fumbles by trying to convince her that you are a good guy? Say shit like that back to her. Turn the tables. Get her to qualify herself for you.

You want to throw some innuendos in. Basically something that sound innocent but has a sexual meaning deep down.

Then obviously when she's game, just describe what you would do. More so the foreplay and take it from there. You want to get her brain stimulated.

It'll take time and practice if you barely do it. Don't be afraid to mess up if you do. It's all apart of the learning.

zapadz · 2022-08-15T18:03:46+00:00

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DODI3OG · 2022-08-15T19:28:01+00:00

I usually do a different approach. Although, I normally talk about sex with women I like, I usually reserve it for women I trust (screen them) just to avoid a sexual harassment kind of scenario.

You'll be surprised at how most women are very open to make out even after 10 mins into approaching them. I made out with a pretty girl right after I walked her out for food. She was sucking on my vape before that and that got me feeling horny.

What I do is talk about sex like it's normal. Tease women how sexual they are, about our fetishes, etc. Then, if we're still not on my place by then, I'd bring up coming over for a movie.

If she's in the mood, I'd usually tease her about watching vanilla Netflix sex scenes and not knowing about real hardcore erotic movies out there. I show her the good scenes, tease her more, make out, and then start undressing. Halfway, we could be humping on each other or doing some foreplay.

Unlike some people, I'm usually very upfront on having sex. So, YMMV. Just get used to talking about sex even if you're not planning to get laid or you don't think you're getting laid.

Just take into account that not all women have the same reaction and tolerance towards sex. If they say no, I'd just ask her if she wants to come home.

Also, there are women who just want to cock tease or women who might just be craving attention. Watch out for signs, so you don't end up wasting your time on them.

ThorOden101 · 2022-08-15T19:23:34+00:00

I have just met a few girls but last time I just made the girl laugh, then I showed her my "man to woman" by getting more physical with her and both could feel the arouse from our touch and then we kissed. There were teasing and laughter but no vocal flirting.

OrzhovPalatine · 2022-08-16T03:04:21+00:00

I always use something around me as a kind of conversational prop as it tends to fly under the radar and flows better in the conversation. Could be me commenting on how her outfit makes her look, her body, how an object looks like a certain body part, how food effects sex etc etc.

If her response is the confused "was that sexual innuendo?" or shes really into then I escalate.

godslonelyman__ · 2022-08-15T22:32:33+00:00

"hi how are you i was thinking we could maybe go [activity] then dinner then afterwards we can go to my house and watch a film then if that gets boring maybe we can make a film"

mundqnity · 2022-08-16T03:54:23+00:00

I like to start by askin a broad if she likes porno, here is how it goes:

me: You like porno?

she: Uh I guess

me: wANNA go watch one at the movies with me

she: :Letys bang

DeJuanBallard · 2022-08-15T20:54:14+00:00

If she hasn't naturally led the convo there, she isn't interested, move on. You bringing it up just gives more indication that you are pressed for it and will make her want it less.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-15T17:54:53+00:00

Ask her if she knows what women in your city put behind their ears to attract men?

2022-08-16T08:47:16+00:00

You can just casually mention something sexual in any context, girl will feel that sex topic is in the air and it will be easier to direct your conversation towards flirting.

Disastrous_Schedule8 · 2022-08-16T13:50:58+00:00

You have two options. Let her initiate the sexual talk or drop a very light innuendo after a few pages of texting. (This doesn't apply to Tinder hookups...you have a straighter path without offending).

For example let's say your talking about food or deserts.

"I like all kinds of deserts 😏"

Then it's up to her to bite or ignore which probably won't happen if she really is into you....but usually girl don't waste valuable texting time on guys they are not interested in.

If she ignores give it a few days and a different topic and try again. If your talking to a girl for a few weeks and the conversation hasn't even toughed on a sexual comment.

There might be some larger issue your not seeing:

Alpha-widow She is in a relationship She has some past trauma she is projecting on this interaction Or you have been classified as a male orbiter.

2022-08-17T04:59:46+00:00

Girls who are comfortable talking about it will talk about it themselves or hint at it. Those are openings for you.

Girls who arent and dont, you can actually just start with physical escalation. That works way better.

texaspete3 · 2022-08-20T17:25:00+00:00

you can have sex with her without once mentioning sex. Kino is how one escalates things physically. Talking about sex is usually a waste of time and can potentially telegraph your intentions. Not the way to go imo.

sound's like you are doing a great job opening and building rapport , now you just need to do kino and go from there.

Title	Tips on how to flirt and transition to sex themed conversation?
Author	Lit-Up
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Date	August 15, 2022 5:23 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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