What if I just said this? Would it work?

imivani · 2022-08-14T11:11:40+00:00

Not “would you like to hang out?” That sounds awfully out of frame. Tell her you’re free at a certain date and time and she should COME ALONG. Big difference there. Invite her out to come along with what you’re doing , instead of posing the question like “umm do you wanna do something?”

Completely changes the dynamic

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-14T15:14:00+00:00

There is no need to ask if she has a boyfriend. Just assume she doesn’t even if she does. It’s her job to tell you of any obstacles without you having to ask her if there are obstacles. Because then you are giving her an opportunity to reject you. If she forgets about telling you she has a boyfriend because you didn’t ask her the. you know the boyfriend doesn’t matter to her and that she is into you so much she forgets her other guy.

But if you start asking for possible obstacles then you are just reminding her if that when she had forgotten and you can lose opportunities.

And if you are thinking: “oh but that’s inmoral, i want to make sure i’m not breaking anything” well good for you, but dating isn’t about good intentions, it’s survival of the fittest. And there will be many chads who won’t give a shit if she has a boyfriend and she will gladly sleep with them.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-14T14:33:42+00:00

Not if you do it in such an excuser way. That's like one step above pretending to be a friend. A step in the right direction but barely an improvement. What's the point of asking her if she has a boyfriend? If she's out at a bar socializing with men, she is not taken. If she were my go friend she most certainly wouldn't be out late at bars talking to other men. Get it?

Instead of asking her if she had a boyfriend give her a compliment. Tell her you like her and find her very attractive. Instead of saying "would you like to hang out some time" say "I want to see you again. Give me your number and I will call you tomorrow to arrange a date for next week". Instead of saying "would you like to grab a drink outside", say "I'm getting out of here, you coming?"

Professional-Ad676 · 2022-08-14T12:26:44+00:00

What makes you think asking a girl if she wanna hang out us not acceptable?! How else are you gonna fuck her if you're not willing to invite her to your place?!

Viktor2500 · 2022-08-14T15:10:04+00:00

Unless one of you has to go then I don't see the point of cutting it off like that. If the conversation is going well then see the whole interaction as an instant date. Get to know her, see if you vibe together and the rest is up to you.

GacDre · 2022-08-14T11:03:25+00:00

I get a ton of action out of "So how many boyfriends do you have?" On one hand it says she is too good looking of a great catch to be single.... It also assumes she is nonmonogamous...I am essentially calling her a hot slut!

One needs quick game & plenty of funny to wield that...When they say "just one" or "I'm married" I'll usually respond with a 'How boring'' or "that's gay" and perhaps say they need a black one over there a Chinese one over here a jewish one over....as soon as we get boring you just jump to the next one...

Anything to encourage HotSluttery in a safe funny way-

YmmV no advice issued...

Good day

shusain2991 · 2022-08-14T13:20:37+00:00

Are you mad? Don't ask about her current or past relationships. Just tell your intentions.

Fate-in-haze · 2022-08-14T14:55:16+00:00

If you like the direct style you should look up David X on YouTube.

sidbunch6 · 2022-08-14T20:13:19+00:00

it will work if she is attracted to you and it will fail if she's not

In other words, it's as 'effective' as any other style of 'game' lol

DO it

debu206 · 2022-08-15T08:36:27+00:00

Change this approach to : lets get drinks this week.

You come across as much more confident, even though you are saying the same thing :)

Title	What if I just said this? Would it work?
Author	dadada486
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	August 14, 2022 10:50 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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