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[–]C0333 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Become interesting and rich
[–]JSnake5 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I am asking how to
[–]kablamosNS 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get a bunch of money and do cool shit
[–]C0333 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. You want career advice or something? Look at the things that guys who are surrounded by girls do and do that. Skiing, beaches, become a host in Las Vegas, whatever.
[–]Kimhooligan 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, choose a career where you get a high salary. It's a big sacrifice, because you won't have a lot of time to do a lot of other stuff.
Work on your body, which also requires a lot of time.
Find a lot of things that interest you that would hopefully attract a lot of people. Things like hosting parties at your place, going to expensive places, doing a lot of cool activities.
But above all, post everything on social media.
And at the end of the day, you'll realize that you're "balling out," but also that your life doesn't have any real purpose or true fulfillment. And that there's an emptiness to your life that you can't really explain but try to fill in with useless shit.
Have a nice life, buddy.
[–]waverunnr 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just starting watching Rick & Morty and really appreciate its nihilistic view of the world: that it’s all ultimately meaningless and we all die alone.
So make the best of it while you’re here because it goes quicker than you think.
[–]Brutal-Black 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What should he do instead then?
[–]Yarmanite 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Women want what other women have. Preselection is what I'm talking about
[–]JSnake5 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah but I need to get a lot of consistent women in the first place
[–]Yarmanite 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's the hard part
[–]Brutal-Black 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What’s preselection?
Preselection is a principle which dictates that women are more attracted to men that seem attractive to other women. So now because your girl 'selected' you, you must be a good mating choice.
[–]Environmental_Cress2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
not just women, but humans
[–]RegretsNothing1 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
lol I love this subreddit. A lot of gold like this one every single day.
[–]JSnake58 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I don’t mean for it to sound memey
[–]Environmental_Cress2 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
there’s literally nothing wrong with his post. Are you aware of social dynamics??
[–]RegretsNothing1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The irony.
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[–]Erbium-Oxide 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I feel you.
Even worse since I’m born to money and have shit to live up to.
[–]alacp1234 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Well first do something that makes you feel alive. Go backpacking at hostels, meet people, or find a career/hobby you love. Ultimately learn to rely on yourself, be social, and be comfortable in your own skin. And don’t be afraid to go to therapy and take meds if necessary but exercise, eating right, and sobriety if you’re addicted are nonnegotiables. You know what you have to do, embrace the suck and do the things you don’t want to do especially if you’re scared. All of these things don’t have to be all at once. Don’t be too hard on yourself.
[–]Erbium-Oxide 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m no billionaire. It’s just that being as good as my father is literally not going to happen. One in a million chance. Being the best in the world at a relatively small field like that can’t be replicated. Income also messes me up, but it’s not as much of an issue as feeling inferior.
Edit: Ignore that. Info dump. Tl;dr - Not the issue.
[–]alacp1234 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m sure what your dad really wants is for you to be able to stand on your own two feet and live a happy life that you are proud of because it’s a path of your own choosing. And if not, he is not a man worth your respect regardless of how “successful” he is.
Either way, you should do you. What did you always want to be as a kid? What are you good at? Notice I didn’t say best, good is good enough; progress, not perfection.
[–]ftdrain 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Oh boy your life must be so tough
[–]Erbium-Oxide 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I actually struggle a lot mentally, for this reason and others.
[–]ftdrain 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are tons of challenges you can pursue, "I have no motivation to push myself because I have everything" is a bullshit excuse, there are a lot of things money cant buy, genuine attraction is one of them (though to be fair money will be a lot of help here too)
[–]Erbium-Oxide 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You assume a whole lot. In my case, that is certainly not it.
[–]MILFinurhood 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Those men are rich and famous. The women they attract only want their money. Is that who you want surrounding you? Why not work on become charismatic and attracting women who fancy your personality.
[–]nio5021 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
become a doctor
[–]Dafiro93 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Probably the worst idea nowadays if you want to make money lmao. Why go through 8+ years of rigorous school for 200k salary? If you fail, you're going to also be in 400k student loans.
[–]nio5021 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
His question was not "what is the best way to make money?". Becoming a physician is one of the most noble and prestigious professions an individual can become. If his ambition is purely to make a boatload of money, he should go to Wall Street.
Also, most people would consider 200k to be a lot of money. If you can't be happy on that kind of salary and provide for a woman, than you have much bigger problems...
[–]Dafiro93 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He wants status not a commitment to medicine that's not even going to show a return until he's 35 after his loans are paid off. Medicine is probably one of the hardest courseload and most potential for burn out. It takes a special person to work 80 hour weeks in residency for 40k pay lol.
[–]knueverl17 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Turn 30 and have money.
[–]150420throwaway 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make me laugh and sad at the same time when I see the same retarded comments I’ve seen asking the same question few years back, and as a 19-20 year old who really needed some guidance and was not confident at all - you fucking morons really need to either learn to contribute something useful and quit trying to be a comedian on Reddit.
OP I can’t exactly say what to do to do that as I’m working on that myself, but focus on working on your confidence, appearance and intelligence - work out, read books. Research around the topics you’re interested in.
Right now my (potentially) last hurdle is just posting pics and using dating apps, as that’s quite likely the only way I’ll find a decent number of women to talk to.
Like somebody else mentioned - preselection. I started going to a hobby with one girl, who I did try to hit it off with and probably had a chance but blew it and she got a different guy, so she ‘suddenly’ stopped coming, and it’s harder to break the ice with new people who come into the class, but thankfully the other people I’ve met before when she was still coming are still there, so that ‘status’ remains to an extent.
It’s an odd one, but a man is judged by the woman he can bring with him, but it shouldn’t be your primary focus, as in, “I’m looking for a woman so she can raise my social status”, that’s something I noticed the dumb bitches do but with men.
I’m trying to find some answers for my own questions, just keep asking them, we’ll mostly get some useless comments but a few of them will come across and probably be the stepping stone we neededZ
[–]SnoaH_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Become a scammer. All they got is free time, and cash to spend on shit that doesn’t matter since they can’t prove it to the IRS 😂😂
[–]MountainGoatSC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Better start rapping
[–]Polsoka 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A fun one I did was befriend the entire bar and wait staff at a local restaurant/bar. I then took a couple of dates there, and interacted with them as I usually would. I can't guarantee it helped, but it sure as shit didn't hinder.
[–]Amikatey 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not about being rich. It's more on the being interesting side + their is a way you have to be thinking. I can't write it on paper.
[–]incognito3107 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, most of the time you should be popular among the girls and respected by guys. By being extremely handsome, extremely smart, rich, successful in sports, social with other high status people, cool, strong etc. etc. Just be the best around.
[–]rushopolisOF 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you in school? If so, become an athlete. If not, still still become an athlete. You can also pick up a sales job which allows you to talk to a lot of women and just make an effort to let them know you're an athlete.
[–]Classy-Glassy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Find your Ikigai
This will ensure you find your purpose and then the riches and bitches will come.
[–]hagakurejunkie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Become someone worth respecting. And you’re 19, you don’t know shit yet. I didn’t know shit at 19, or 25, or even 30.
What can you do that should be respected? Do you fix cars? Can you build furniture, do you wake up at 5am everyday? Can you do anything well that the average person cannot?
[–]anou142 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It has nothing to do with money most young girls don’t care about money they care about having fun… you are not supposed to be rich at 19.. if you want to increase ur statues become confident and in turn you will have social proof because u will have friends who like you and want to be around you.
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