Do girls and women like being talked to?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-20T00:06:53+00:00

Just because some women don’t like it doesn’t mean all women on earth are the same. It’s like asking: do men like being talked to? Some do, some do not. Much like with everything else.

You cannot generalise about what people like or dislike.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-19T21:56:05+00:00

No. The human race has procreated through immaculate conception for millions of years.

WarBalente · 2022-07-19T21:31:04+00:00

They like being talked to by people they like. If they don't like someone it is a nuisance

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-07-19T21:46:45+00:00

I need context?

Generally I enjoy talking to people, I’m quite a sociable person.

But if it’s in a ‘I want to fuck you and invade your personal boundaries’ or ‘I’m gonna get in the way of you doing a task that you are clearly trying to get done’ it’s quite annoying

2022-07-19T22:13:44+00:00

Women like to talk to guys that have looks and status. They don’t like guys that are ugly with no swag.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-20T05:10:47+00:00

Women are usually always approachable as long as it is normal to. If you're interupting them it's just a matter of whom is being nicer about it.

You can't be rude in action, as much as rude in your words. Who would be rude anyway?

Calamity__Bane · 2022-07-20T01:15:55+00:00

It’s bullshit lol, what they don’t like is having their boundaries or personal space invaded by someone who doesn’t know how to have a good conversation, they like to talk to normal people under normal conditions provided they aren’t occupied with something they deem important.

2022-07-20T16:35:56+00:00

<sighs deeply> I give up with this sub.

MistyMaisel · 2022-07-20T16:49:43+00:00

I like talking to my friends, family, loved ones, and acquaintances from within my particular community. Almost 100% of the time. But if they interrupt me when I'm busy or focused, I'm a little annoyed, but I will mostly put what I'm doing down to converse with them.
I am willing to talk to people I don't know in social situations I've put myself in (parties, events, etc.) I may even enjoy it and make a new friend. But even here, if I communicate a lack of interest in you, and you persist, I'm going to be annoyed. And if I'm already in a conversation and you interrupt it to make yourself known, especially if you interrupt me, I'm going to be annoyed.
If I'm out living my daily ass life, working, focusing, doing errands, etc. and you try to talk to me, I'm going to be annoyed. Flat and period. You're a stranger. You might be dangerous. You clearly don't respect my schedule (which you know nothing about) and feel entitled to my time and attention because you....exist and are horny? Like, no. Go away. Go to a party or a bar or an event and meet someone that way. Don't interrupt my getting groceries to "shoot your shot". I might be nicer about this than I want to out of self-preservation, but all I'm thinking in my brain is that I would like to tell you how irrelevant and annoying you are to me.

This is not about what you look like or who you are or what your status is. This is about context and showing the slightest amount of an ability to read the room.

A lot of men think their hornyness, loneliness, or need to socialize is somehow important enough to make the people they need help from uncomfortable and inconvenienced. The logic to this is incredibly flawed. Don't do it.

Plenty_Software4415 · 2022-07-20T02:17:19+00:00

Have you seen the meme where it was Riotting or Protesting display card and the only difference between each one was depending on the shade of their skin? Well it’s like that except it depends on if your attractive or not, and the options are Harrassment or flirting.

AngeloMacon · 2022-07-19T21:44:56+00:00

Wait, they tell you this? What's the context? Like some guy approaches them at a bar and they come back to you and tell you how much of a creep the guy is?

2022-07-20T12:02:46+00:00

Subjective, do you look good to them? Then yes

vinocarlovinie · 2022-07-20T14:58:32+00:00

What?!

sincere_blasphemy · 2022-07-21T08:24:15+00:00

It really depends on the person. For me, it depends on my mood and the situation. If I am in a good mood and not actively engaged with a task that’s involves focus, whether that is talking on the phone, reading a book/listening to music, or eating something, I’m open to polite, small conversation. GENERALLY… I’m not interested in making friends with strangers or getting picked up (I’m taken). I have to already be engaged in a social setting, such as at school or at work or at a party/club to want to make friends. A lot of times I just am not feeling social and not interested in talking to anyone.

Title	Do girls and women like being talked to?
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Date	July 19, 2022 9:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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