How can I meet any girls when I don't have friends to go out with?

mystylejay · 2022-05-29T00:05:18+00:00

College is the place to be especially at your age to make friends and meet girls but if you dont really want to commit to studying and getting a degree I would suggest you join a class or group doing activities you like for example learning to dance or cook or yoga even martial arts something that interests you where you can meet like minded people maybe even girls could be a good idea good luck and also I’ve gone out alone before you just have to be really social and be able to hold conversations and you’ll meet people easily it’s only as weird as you think it is tbh good luck man!

Alternative_Lime158 · 2022-05-29T00:05:38+00:00

Go out on the street, one where you can find a lot of people constantly, and cold approach, that's how you do it without relying on your social group.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-29T02:39:05+00:00

In parks, beaches, malls, gyms,… etc Anywhere really, you just need to be polite, fun and confident.

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-29T00:50:10+00:00

U don't need friends to introduce yourself to women in the streets during daytime.

blackfury24 · 2022-05-29T14:31:33+00:00

Hey bro keep your head up. I have been single since college and honestly being on Reddit has helped me become more comfortable with myself and confident in breaching taboos I was too afraid to bring up. And just last week, I DMed someone who made a post that resonated with me. And we've really hit it off. I had about given up and decided to just be happy by myself. Which I still am. However, if you know how to love yourself, then you can then teach someone how you want to be loved.

This might seen a bit off topic, but I hope it can help keep you optimistic

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-05-29T12:10:06+00:00

Go to social events to make friends and get on the dating apps to meet girls.

Independent-Welder-3 · 2022-05-29T15:51:50+00:00

I would not women in the street, because i dont trust street people, maybe inside a grocery store, yoga class, the gym, the libary but not the street, whoever tell you to meet women in the street is a bad idea, if i was a women i wouldnt talk to men in the street because you can be trying to ask me for money, cat calling lol which is a turn off... etc

BenNewcomb1 · 2022-05-29T16:05:35+00:00

Get hobbies and go do them at least once a week. Dance classes, yoga, martial arts, hiking, business...lots of activities to do and you can meet people while doing those activities.

ImLostInLife1 · 2022-05-29T05:34:14+00:00

Download bumble. You can make real friends and also meet with girls. You could also find new hobbies and meet people through them

ikeepon · 2022-05-29T00:33:55+00:00

I mean, I go to the bars/clubs alone all the time and have a lot of success. It’s fun. If that doesn’t work for you try joining a social scene. A dance school/club would do nicely. They usually also have ‘social’ dances - it don’t get more social than that, lol.

Current-Weather-9561 · 2022-05-29T08:11:37+00:00

The fact that you’re basically saying that you don’t have friends, is a big issue. 21 with no friends is difficult.

Most social circles were either friends from their teenage years, met in college, or at work. You seem to have none of those things. It gets really hard to make friends if you don’t have those things.

You work from home? Try traveling, meet people from another state (assuming you’re US)

greatlifeahead · 2022-05-29T08:37:57+00:00

Start a hobby that is social and where you meet girls. Like yoga or volunteer work.

Also learn how to go out alone. Even if you go out with friends you have to talk to girls by yourself. Your friends aren't going to pick up girls for you.

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-05-29T16:12:04+00:00

Immediately go do team sports with other dudes, join a club, you’ll make friends immediately.

Black_Opium8888 · 2022-05-29T19:06:17+00:00

I play adult sports to try and meet people

bethfreestone · 2022-05-29T19:57:20+00:00

Do you have any siblings you could go drinking or clubbing with? 🙂

Title	How can I meet any girls when I don't have friends to go out with?
Author	SpreadCapable4855
Upvotes	21
Comments	25
Date	May 29, 2022 12:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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