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SilverSight · 2022-05-28T23:10:47+00:00

My girlfriend sort of has this look. Ignore most of the virgin comments in this thread so far.

I think you’ve mostly hit the nail on the head here. Working out is pretty universally attractive, so you can’t really go wrong there. Otherwise, like most groups, there’s a lot of diversity between them. My girl likes long nails, large hoop earrings and wears heels basically everywhere she goes. That said, she’s a film and theater buff.

What I do is match the male equivalent of their fashion choices (since this is how I normally dress, and the type of girl I’m attracted to). I wear sneakers, some amount of jewelry, often a graphic tee I like, though I keep those things somewhat minimal. Clothing communicates a membership in certain communities. That being said, they’re only a way to get in, not necessarily a way to stay in, as if you’re inauthentic, people will pickup on it.

If you’re into this style, find pieces you enjoy and appreciate, but make sure it’s congruent to your personality, and make sure you have more personality loaded so you don’t lose them by emulating fashion, but having nothing else behind that.

Hope this was helpful.

Dianabayyebii · 2022-05-28T22:36:36+00:00

Have money lol

No. I’m kidding. My advice is just be yourself. Shoot your shot. They are either going to like you or not. As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized ppl are just ppl. Don’t put any one person (look in your case) on a pedestal.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-28T22:13:12+00:00

Treat a queen like a whore and a whore like a queen. These girls think they queens lol, but need to be treated like the hoes they really are.

MattPruga · 2022-05-29T13:11:49+00:00

be slightly arrogant and cocky, dress well, wear good sexy parfume, strong eye contact, make them work for you, tease them a lot, show interest/disinterest, be bold, once they qualify you reward them

Mr-Kabuki · 2022-05-28T23:44:31+00:00

You have to play a strong value centric game and you need to be teasing them, and showing you dont think that they are the shit. They respond to jerk game a lot more.

coachmelloweyes · 2022-05-29T06:05:51+00:00

See what they in general want… so the baddie type wants an equally image conscious man and wants a man that reflects the views that they baddie trope/ media portrays.

Eg baddie- gets the bag, sassy, attitude, queen.

So being rich, handling her sass, and the ability to be kinglike (a type personality) is what she wants. So she can brag to her friends that she has the type of man that their music idolises.

An artsy girl will be less money focused and care about your free spirit and creativity and how well you fit into the stereotype of the guy who artsy girls fall in love with eg painter with carefree style, tattoos and lives in a loft apartment with paint on the floor boards. He’s B type personality.

TheNextBigCrash · 2022-05-28T22:10:09+00:00

Can’t think of anything worse 😂 I intentionally stay well away

2022-05-29T06:27:41+00:00

I don’t know. Join a gang and move to the ghetto.

Woujo · 2022-05-29T00:01:54+00:00

Didn't you post this a long time ago?

mfposgbcs · 2022-05-29T07:08:34+00:00

Be a cartel boss

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-05-29T07:25:45+00:00

These types of girls usually are usually social, more egoistic, confident so you definitely gonna have to have a strong frame and usually works for me. Social proof. Okay I know some attraction switches for girl I'm not gonna write them all down but social proof one of the biggest attraction switch especially for those type of girls. What social proof is? Having other cool guys/ hot girls liking you. Like if you're the alpha of your own social circle. You have power and status and that's what those type of girls looking for so you can use that up pretty easily

Woujo · 2022-05-28T22:36:31+00:00

Are you a baddie yourself? Do you meet their standards and are you their type?

Rich, jacked, good looking, tall, etc

If not then you will have a tough time.

Do you match with these type of girls on tinder at least? If no then you aren’t their type.

IneffableLiam · 2022-05-28T22:56:08+00:00

Have money

Intelligent_Lunch267 · 2022-05-28T22:58:36+00:00

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slickestwood · 2022-05-29T01:11:25+00:00

Become the baddie

DrockTipps · 2022-05-29T01:18:11+00:00

Be confident.

Throwdaho · 2022-05-29T05:53:36+00:00

Just stand there. Women will swoon over that because they can "fix" him.

Throwdaho · 2022-05-29T10:03:25+00:00

My girl is like this. And I feel like a nerd next to her. But apparently I’m not. But I am… it’s weird. Just be you and don’t treat her like a stereotype.

cronasminate · 2022-05-29T14:18:48+00:00

I always thought a baddie was a girl who looks so good she a baddie lol. What you described sounds more like a "chola."

2022-05-29T14:21:01+00:00

More arrogant and push and test HARD. These girls come off as confident but it’s a facade hence the glamour look. Also looks are deceiving some girls might look like they are full of themselves and snobby but aren’t.

RoutineHorror5676 · 2022-06-02T17:55:41+00:00

Don't use words like "baddie".

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