If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her?

necriel · 2022-05-26T07:35:05+00:00

It may sound silly, but many men will lose interest in that scenario.

I personally was involved in a similar situation. A girl and i were into each other, but she got sexual with my friend, and I could never see her the same way. Despite my best efforts, every time i imagined her sexually, i immediately thought of the two of them.

But hey, maybe I'm just weird.

Ecstatic-Flounder-48 · 2022-05-26T08:37:06+00:00

If you’re the type to juggle men without a second thought the way that you’re currently doing, I dont doubt that many of these men would lose interest in you. Respectfully

Hot_Experience5899 · 2022-05-26T07:54:08+00:00

both guys will lose interest in you...but the one you like, will do it faster, if he already hasn't(~life goes on and on and on~ plays in the background)

easygo · 2022-05-26T09:06:40+00:00

yes, I would 100% lose all interest. I would say a majority of guys would.

Vigeto619 · 2022-05-26T09:07:10+00:00

If he fucked one of your friends wouldnt you lose interest?

Follow_Jxse · 2022-05-26T11:53:39+00:00

I can guarantee 100% that you have no chance with the guy you like. No one likes sloppy seconds…….

VisionsOfVisions · 2022-05-26T07:46:04+00:00

The two guys may have talked through it and the guy you like valued his friendship more than having a thing with you. It’s just that his interest in you was not high enough to fight his friend over for you.

Asleep-Echo-3701 · 2022-05-26T08:35:18+00:00

If it's a random guy I don't know because she was dating multiple people... Nah. I'd assume that from the start.

If it's my friend, absolutely I'd lose interest. This happened to me with this girl a few months ago. I found out she had hooked up with a friend of mine and she got really upset when I lost interest in her. Complained to all these friends of hers why I wasn't chasing anymore. It's a switch, and pretty instantaneous. After hearing, I lost interest in her in about 5 mins.

3dprintje · 2022-05-26T10:59:36+00:00

He might not just only have lost interest, you also probably hurt his feelings if he liked you

AlacrityZlso · 2022-05-26T10:39:11+00:00

Both guys will leave you

iTAMEi · 2022-05-26T11:40:51+00:00

Yes I would completely lose interest.

1) Could cause trouble between friends

2) I'd probably assume you didnt really like me in the first place

ImpressiveGrocery959 · 2022-05-26T11:43:30+00:00

Yeah you’d have no chance with me if I was that guy.

GroundbreakingAd8077 · 2022-05-26T11:22:59+00:00

It's very unlikely you will get with your crush, you could try being really direct, but he will probably reject you

Uesugi_Kenshin · 2022-05-26T12:25:58+00:00

Lol I've been that exact guy. The "guy you like." Made a move on her at a party, she was into me & we later got into deep talks etc. Personally I just wanted to get to know each other better before we knocked boots.

Then one day I uploaded an Instagram story where I was partying with a good friend of mine. That same evening she slid into his DMs telling him how beautiful he was. I unfollowed & cut off contact with her not an hour later after I found out.

My friend said he understands why I made a move on her (implying he found her hot), so I said "go ahead, she's yours." I wasn't interested in a girl who I built a connection with, with clear mutual signs on both parts, and then she goes ahead and starts flirting with my friends, let alone fuck them. That's just the female equivalent of a fuckboy. Just going for the next best guy that she can find, which is exactly what you did. It's crazy to me how you feel no remorse at all, and don't understand what you did lol

Ill-Entrepreneur7400 · 2022-05-26T07:38:35+00:00

I personally may still go out with you but I wouldn't take you seriously, for obvious reasons, you know what you did wasn't good which is why you are posting about it. But it all depends on the guy, maybe he wouldn't mind at all! but I wouldn't want to have serious relationship with a girl who sleeps with my friends.

realistfake12 · 2022-05-26T09:22:49+00:00

if they're real friends then yes they defo will

2022-05-26T11:28:10+00:00

Yes. Bro code 👌

Lord_Goose · 2022-05-26T11:03:08+00:00

For me. Yes.

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2022-05-26T12:01:31+00:00

Yeah, its over with him.

ChildOfRavens · 2022-05-26T12:19:34+00:00

They let you make a choice you could’ve chose him or his friend, you chose his friend. Most likely the best you can get is a friends with benefits or the occasional weekend pump and dump. but when you went with the friend you took yourself out of the actual committed relationship potential. Probably not what you wanted to hear. but dudes have emotions and egos too, and you just walked on his.

fielddaydownstairs · 2022-05-26T11:56:39+00:00

yuck

Cards_s · 2022-05-26T12:34:31+00:00

Yeah no, if he was thinking of something serious with you, once you got with his roommate it's over. Most of us dont like sharing.

And if it happens now, he is just going to fuck around with you. That's it.

Why didn't just ask him?? You do know that most of us dont get the "subtle" signals or any signal for that matter at all.

I dont get why you went home with his roommate just because the one you liked didn't show interest. It's settling in a bad way.

MrBlack__ · 2022-05-26T12:15:31+00:00

What the idea of a friend/ room mate fucking a girl a man likes is a mindfuck because it makes him have to look at all he’s inadequacies.

I feel really sorry for that guy, but what’s more eye opening is a woman’s perspective. Confidence really is everything.

2022-05-26T11:42:15+00:00

Well you can still try!

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-05-26T12:49:09+00:00

Yes they would lose interest. If you were that interested why would you fuck his friends.

If he made no move then I guess that’s his fault for not manning up. I would assume you made it obvious that he could fuck you.

Either way seems like that situation has come and gone but I’m sure he has other friends you can sleep with.

Green-Vehicle8424 · 2022-05-26T12:06:51+00:00

Title	If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her?
Author	mollylad4
Upvotes	26
Comments	52
Date	May 26, 2022 7:26 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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