How to tell if a girl who has a lot of guy friends and is outgoing is flirting, or just being friendly

revente · 2022-05-11T13:16:47+00:00

Ask her out and escalate.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-11T14:52:43+00:00

They'll be harder to "pull into your frame". I literally just responded to another post about this. A guy asked out a chick and she said "I'll bring my friends and you bring yours". Boom, she will not easily agree to intimate encounters or play right into your frame. So, you will need to hold fast and probably use a "take away" offer but honestly she might just walk away too unless she's very high interest in you. These girls have a lot to occupy their time with so, again, unless she finds you very very attractive you might pull away and she will prob do the same. But this will let you know she's not that interested, or you'll call her bluff.

Girls with lots of guy friends typically like the attention, and validation. I'm not just talking shit, I know a girl like this and she straight up tells me she will keep guys numbers and when she gets bored she'll go through her phone and start texting different contacts to start up conversation which she then flakes on. She's admitted to me she specifically enjoys "making guys fall for her". And she knows it's toxic. Anyway, maybe they're not all that extreme but it's def a challenge. Damn this turned into a long reply but it is a good topic

You cannot budge an inch for these women. If you suggest something and she tries to change it all around, then remove your offer. Like I said, they will be used to guys doing whatever for them and if you even hint that you will comply, she will instantly categorize you as just like every other orbiter. She'll invite you to group events, and keep you as a friend. You. Must. Not. Comply.

Sefure800 · 2022-05-11T15:10:55+00:00

Real question is, do you want a girl or do you want a woman. A girl needs attention from multiple men and hence all those guys orbiting her in the friend zone. A woman only needs attention from 1 man, and you can feel it when you’re with that one, there’s no second guessing.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-05-11T14:01:17+00:00

Depends on how she's interacting with you, if you start to first does she flirt back? does she giggle? does she trying to touch you or just getting closer to you? all these are pretty good signs, but overall, it doesn't matter if she's a "flirty" person. all that mater is how she interacts with you

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-11T13:17:57+00:00

if it's just a girl who i'm interested in her , i act like i'm an open minded guy who is totally okay with girls having alot of guy friends & doing anything they want , then i aim for instasex ( rapid sex ) & when i'm done , i never reply to her again.

if she's my girlfriend , i force her to simply burn her identity , phone number apps etc . all of them should be gone or i'm gonna go .

how to know ? just let her open up for you on first date , it's very easy to identify them.

jsbach123 · 2022-05-11T13:41:01+00:00

You're asking an unanswerable question. Whenever a woman is being friendly or flirty, you use that opening as a way to know her better and game her. It doesn't matter how that opening came up in the first place.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-11T14:32:30+00:00

You just escalate things physically, simple as that.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-11T15:34:15+00:00

Let me consult the tea leaves.....

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/un62yo/we_arent_tea_readers_we_cant_tell_you_if_some/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

These-Calligrapher · 2022-05-11T16:41:22+00:00

Google iois and get familiar with them. Test for compliance. Make a move

MistyMaisel · 2022-05-11T17:17:02+00:00

Compare how you are being treated to how she treats her guy friends obviously. I have a lot of guy friends. I don't treat them like I treat guys I'm flirting with. Per example, any of the flirting I do with guy friends is always done in a joking, over the top way that makes it clear I don't mean what I'm saying at all. If I'm into the guy, I don't undercut the flirt by making it a joke. It's just a flirt. I'm not touchy with my guy friends these days. We hug at the end of a hang-out maybe and it is a quick non-lingering hug. If I'm into the guy, I let it be a longer hug. I don't touch my guy friends casually or groom them. I will do these flirty behaviour with guys I'm into. The compliments I give are also more like I'd give a girlfriend than a guy I was into.

Title	How to tell if a girl who has a lot of guy friends and is outgoing is flirting, or just being friendly
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Date	May 11, 2022 1:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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