How to show to a women that I have value?

kettlebell_workout · 2022-04-18T08:27:27+00:00

Have values, beliefs and don’t compromise them no matter what.

theseoulplayer · 2022-04-18T08:40:30+00:00

If you're trying to 'show value,' then you're already behind the 8 ball. You're going to come off as desperate, try-hard, or a show off. None of those are great.

Instead of trying to show your value, determine what it is that makes you unique or special, what you bring to the table in a relationship. If they are things that are already important to you, then it will come across in your natural behavior.

For example, perhaps the value you bring is in financial stability (having cash). Then you'll be paying for things as you're together, not fussing about the price of things, etc. You don't have to tell her you're rich, she'll get the idea.

The same goes for other aspects of your personality, or your 'value' as a man. Maybe you're funny, witty, enjoyable to be around. You don't have to show it, she will pick it up if you're doing it.

Focus on the parts of yourself that you think are valuable or important to a relationship, build those aspects of yourself, and allow them to come out when you're on dates.

TheCultOfGrogg · 2022-04-18T12:28:57+00:00

Be indifferent to her presence. If I take a Lamborghini from an average man, he will fight, kick, and scream. If I take a Lamborghini from Jeff Bezos, so fucking what. When you become indifferent to her coming and going, she knows that you can replace her, and the only person capable of replacing valuable people is a valued person.

Basically, however compelled by your endorphins you are to act a certain when she’s around, act the exact opposite. Women will tell you don’t do this but I shit you not every under-30 woman is fucking some guy that doesn’t give a shit about her and straight-up dogging some guy that would move heaven and earth for her.

This is kinda why I don’t date btw. Because men and women think differently, our displays of affection get perceived differently. Regardless of what women say, they only hook up with men they see a future with. Men will hook up with a lobster. Also, because men want to be appreciated, they should appreciation by acts of kindness and reassurance of loyalty. Women, being inherently vulnerable creatures, perceive such acts as weakness. Say what you want but to love is to be vulnerable, and women don’t appreciate vulnerable men when the goal in having a man is provision and protection.

2022-04-18T12:05:13+00:00

hate to say something like this, but have the confidence to feel like you're above them all without belittling them

ecish · 2022-04-18T10:27:10+00:00

Confidence

And money doesn’t hurt

FullbackBoi · 2022-04-18T10:33:55+00:00

Abundance mindset. Strive only for your goals/ambitions/money - girls may join you on your journey as you both strive toward your ambitions and they may even leave whenever without having a single effect on you.

Now how you convey that you are high value? I create a private story on Instagram or Snap and add girls I talk to, to it as well as friends. I simply post myself having fun with friends, other girls but also post progress with my online businesses and my job. I also show gym progresses but I post very little of this compared to other stuff otherwise I’ll come off as a try hard gym bro.

mmmfritz · 2022-04-18T12:09:08+00:00

A big watch

TourBig643 · 2022-04-18T15:27:30+00:00

Run around her in a circle screaming like a banshee and drink non toxic glue

whale_sports · 2022-04-18T15:58:11+00:00

Have value first.

hagakurejunkie · 2022-04-18T19:40:36+00:00

Men who have real value, it emanates off them like an aura. If you actually have real value, other men will notice it. If you're a faker, you'll come off as trying to show off.

Kadabrium · 2022-04-19T11:57:00+00:00

Just define what value is on your own.

5_7pickup · 2022-04-18T11:08:15+00:00

Everybody here giving you vague ass advice so instead Ill do you a solid.

Stand up straight with great posture. Speak in a deeper voice. Speak at a slower rate. Have excellent eye contact. Dont be reactive, just calm down and slow it down. Speak loudly. Dont be afraid to escalate.

Title	How to show to a women that I have value?
Author	Madafakaaaaaaaaaaa
Upvotes	1
Comments	26
Date	April 18, 2022 8:04 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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