This community should focus more on solutions to the challenges we face as males rather than look for sympathy. The only way we will all get better is to all help each other. I can get laid pretty consistently and when I see a post about someone messing up I try to point out how I think they could be doing better. But I’ve noticed I learn a lot from guys who do equally as well just using different methods. Reddit has a stereotype of being a hivemind so let’s put it to use. If a date goes wrong, or someone’s complaining about a girl they’re texting, don’t just validate them, give them concrete solutions.

I realize many guys here are young and starting out and not successful with girls yet. THAT IS OK. But guys who have been doing this for a while should share their advice so we can all get better. I don’t need any help getting girls, however reading some of the comments on this sub has still expanded my mind and introduced more strategies I can use. We can all teach each other something since we all have different life experiences and have interacted with different women. If we pool out interactions together we can all get better!