Ghosted after first date

bcool_returns · 2022-03-15T18:49:59+00:00

What was the vibe on the date, what kind of physicality happened, and how did it end? On my very best dates, in many cases the women are the ones following up with me first.

James_Bob_007 · 2022-03-15T20:20:53+00:00

It sounds counter-intuitive, but don't text her after the date that you had a great time.

I know, people don't like games, but you need to play games on the first few dates. If you don't play games, you'll end this way = ghosted or friendzoned.

As some others have replied: during the date you had to talk, have a good time but also you should have added some man to woman chemistry/vibe.

After the date, you don't send anything. You text her after 1-2-3 days.

In your case, sit and wait. You can try to send one more message, but after 2 messages without a reply that is a Game over.

But tbh, more or less this is already a Game over. You were probably too nice, too soft and too friendly on a date. And you weren't any challenge.

But try to learn something from this experience and don't make the same mistake with a new girl. It gets better after 2, 5 or 10 bad dates.

Good luck

Billyjeanisntmylover · 2022-03-15T20:23:04+00:00

You shouldn't have went on the date in the first place if it took her 12 hours to respond to date request - should've know this was going to be the outcome, esp if you didn't kiss her or anything. This is a learning experience. Next her and move on. #NoContact

DkSage12 · 2022-03-15T18:05:33+00:00

9 years old????

aStonedPanda94 · 2022-03-15T19:32:24+00:00

People who are interested respond. Give her space so you don’t seem needy, only option really

2022-03-15T21:24:12+00:00

Nah man just let it go. Sad to say but you gotta move on.

2022-03-15T20:05:00+00:00

She is intentionally taking 12 hours to respond dude. She ain't a monk going on 12 hr phone fasting. You too don't have anything better to do. Is She is a celeb and you keep waiting for 12 hours? Gimme a break !

RastaPilot737 · 2022-03-15T22:57:36+00:00

Why do we focus so much on texts??? How was the date like?

AngeloMacon · 2022-03-15T23:00:32+00:00

Wait a day and throw out a text that has a question in it. Move on if you get no response or some short polite response

2022-03-16T04:29:15+00:00

People thinking OP 9+ meant 9 years old hahaha.

He meant she was a 9/10

invaderjif · 2022-03-15T21:43:24+00:00

Hmm 9+....how about we stick to 18+ though going forward? (Fbi, this is the guy)

universalvoid87 · 2022-03-15T19:57:22+00:00

Lol man get used to this shit and grow up

Title	Ghosted after first date
Author	GalaCad2003
Upvotes	1
Comments	25
Date	March 15, 2022 5:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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