I Want to Live A Lifestyle of Casual Sex For Awhile. How Do I Tell This to Other Guys I Know?

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-03-13T18:05:41+00:00

You don’t ? Just move in silence. No need to make it known? Unless you insecure

Blackcat0123 · 2022-03-13T19:13:53+00:00

Kinda weird that you feel like you need to announce to old friends that you have sex. Like... why is this a topic on your mind?

"Hey Electric_Shark442, long time no see, dude! I haven't seen you since college! How are things? What have you been up to?"

"I AM HAVING THE SEX. ALL OF THE SEX."

"Oh, um... okay? Well, there's my coffee, so.. great seeing you and imma go now."

Just live your life. You're way over thinking it.

cloudlessnine8 · 2022-03-13T18:46:46+00:00

It won’t make you happy like you think it will 😭 it sounds good in your head, but it’s not in practice.

garlopf · 2022-03-13T18:07:10+00:00

Why tell them? Actions peak louder than words. Just do it and prepare a good response for questions/comments. I went through my life being overly explicit; I had to inform in advance. Didn't do me any favors.

2022-03-13T18:46:37+00:00

Don't be too open about being into hookups, you could damage your reputation. Most guys who are hooking up aren't advertizing it to everyone they know. At the very least actually be living the casual lifestyle before you tell everyone about it.

t-munny92 · 2022-03-13T18:28:45+00:00

Same I'm 29 I feel the same way I felt I missed my sexual fun. Now I'm like wtf lol

SwoleMountain · 2022-03-13T18:26:37+00:00

Just tell them that you're going through a bicurious phase and that they should support you. Plenty of bros will let you pick up the soap.

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-03-13T19:02:29+00:00

Why is it that everyone seems to think they have to announce their intended path in life, sexual orientation, what gender they identify as (if any), that they are vegan and they do cross fit? I don't tell anyone anything, it's really none of their business.

Mriconicdev · 2022-03-13T19:26:20+00:00

Why do you have to tell anyone your personal life lol. That’s the first step stop giving a fuck and enjoy life.

jaafarbht · 2022-03-13T18:21:52+00:00

Be honest about it, if they are your friends... they should respect your decisions.

Extra-Boysenberry · 2022-03-13T20:01:27+00:00

Honestly, it’s not all that. Just graduated college and got my numbers in the double digits. I was sad and heartbroken after my high school sweetheart and I split up. It sounds pathetic, but I thought it would help me forget about her. It did to an extent, but it made me crave a wholesome relationship even more. Casual sex with a girl you just met doesn’t have the same value as going down on a girl you truly love.

There’s nothing wrong with being a bachelor and meeting new women, but making your whole life mantra on just trying to get your numbers up is not a good idea in my honest opinion.

damnation333 · 2022-03-13T20:14:42+00:00

You don't say "I wanna only have casual relationships", but word it differently: "I want to focus on myself and develop my career and personally and don't want to invest time and energy into finding a partner and building a relationship". If you have to explain at all. I doubt it though, especially how young you are. Those questions like "why are you single?" will happen more the closer you get to 30.

Lifedeather · 2022-03-13T20:26:19+00:00

Bruh you just trying to flex telling people and stating you have 6 figured and can afford car and income. Like good for you but other people are as fortunate living in those circumstances especially to hear from it as a friend flexing on them. Just keep it to yourself and you do you man.

Alextryingforgrate · 2022-03-13T20:32:13+00:00

Can I just tell em during a conversation the same thing that “listen bro I just wanna travel and fuck bitches you know what I mean”

Yes, this is an option.

Hockey_Stop · 2022-03-13T20:38:43+00:00

Your life, you don't necessarily need to tell anybody anything. However, I will say...don't do it. It looks fun and all that, but keep this in mind, the more you touch, the less sensitive you are. Really mull on that. Believe it or not, you're ahead of the game. All that glitters isn't gold my man. Don't be frivolous with yourself. You'll thank yourself for it later.

dave_aj · 2022-03-13T20:50:33+00:00

Don’t waste your money on an expensive car. We’re going to have some rough times ahead. Learn to invest your money early.

bestmenrmenatbest · 2022-03-13T20:57:53+00:00

Are you doing this because you want to or because you need that validation that you can sleep with many women?

DeJuanBallard · 2022-03-13T21:01:46+00:00

If you just graduated your not a late bloomer, those tv shows and movies that show highschool and college age dudes just running through hot girls , are largely lies, really only applies to a very few people in the real world.

Also you have a long time before worrying about having kids or getting married. Take your time, and don't let women or white knight in simps , make you feel like a bad person or tell you what your doing is wrong, just make your intentions clear before getting too involved, just fuck and go.

t-munny92 · 2022-03-13T21:33:41+00:00

Now what kills me is you have one side oh it's not nothing it's the right one will come along, it's not all that. Then on the flip side you got the guys who "oh you incel, can't get blah blah. So its like damn if you do damn if you don't lol

Title	I Want to Live A Lifestyle of Casual Sex For Awhile. How Do I Tell This to Other Guys I Know?
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Date	March 13, 2022 6:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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