Struggling with the prerequisites.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-03-06T07:55:04+00:00

They told ya you gotta have badass life with a bag of $ in order to get laid?..

Well well 🤣

mightymite88 · 2022-03-06T07:09:33+00:00

Bro your priorities are out of whack. You dont have to be uber successful to date, but 'borderline homeless and food insecure' is absolutely not a state you can be in if you want to date. you're gonna end up getting laid and then becoming homeless if you divide your energy like that. focus on getting food and housing first.

5_7pickup · 2022-03-06T07:59:40+00:00

You dont need to have your life together to do pickup.

I do vegas cold approach and pick up girls all the time. 90% of them dont know what I do for a living.

But you do need an appropriate living accommodation and a car. It doesnt have to be luxury apartment or car. This is just for logistics.

But I do encourage having a nicer apartment and a decent car.

I live in a luxury apartment and I drive a 27k car. I live expensive because I like it but Idc about cars so thats why I drive a cheap car. A 50k car wouldnt affect my pickup results at all.

SchecterDLX · 2022-03-06T13:50:52+00:00

Well, since you don’t have much in the way of finances or status, your best bet is developing your game/mentality. But even that’s going to be quite a challenge because the lack of success in other areas of your life is going to negatively affect your mental state. All in all, it’ll be an uphill battle. The obvious answer is to improve in all aspects of your life, but if that’s not possible then focus on the one that is most attainable at the moment based upon the circumstances you laid out: improve your game/mentality. You just have to practice. Go out and interact with women. Even just casual conversation. Start small then escalate if possible. Get rejected and learn. Develop an aloof attitude through constant exposure to them. Do these things and you will start to have some success.

MikeAlphaGolf · 2022-03-06T08:58:39+00:00

Sometimes having nothing comes with a certain freedom and lack of inhibitions. Plenty of struggling artists are out there slaying. Find a compelling true story about yourself that explains your situation and approach with abandon.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-06T13:59:50+00:00

Approach girls in parks, the beach, coffee shops, streets, libraries, book shops, etc and talk to them.

You need to just focus on being humorous, be unpredictable in your answers to her questions, mess with them, roast them or tease them, talk with a sexual body language, and flirt both verbally and physically, if she si comfortable with your verbal flirting and escalate things.

Women want to feel emotions, and they hate logical conversations…

When flirting: they wanna laugh, feel tension, surprise, or drama, or empathy love it when you are extremely subjective.

They hate when the guy is logical, tries to bring logical topics that require thinking and analysis, they hate when the guy us objective and focuses o factual things, and hate it when he never talks about how he feels about things, but rather he focuses on what he does without saying how he feels about it.

They wanna feel so your conversation needs to generate emotions, it needs to be emotional not logical, it needs to be subjective, not objective, it needs to be fun, not boring, it has to be unpredictable, not predictable.

wayoflifeforme · 2022-03-06T07:32:57+00:00

Bro at least you know where your energy should be spent. I’m sick of idiots who can’t dress are still fat or skinny trying to learn scripted lines to pull women. No you need to sort your shit out first.

Anyway your issue is that you need to actually follow that advice and get out of poverty bro lol.

I want to have sex at 30

Look at it this way, you need to earn the right to be attractive enough to become an option for sex. That means sorting your shit out brother plain and simple you can fantasise all you want but you need to honestly find out what drives you and work toward that and make more money, pussy should be the last thing on your mind or it should be a damn privilege to you lol

moderndayfez · 2022-03-06T21:02:58+00:00

What jobs have you had in the past and can you say why you got laid off?

Okay_LetsfGo3734 · 2022-03-07T01:30:04+00:00

Its not what you have or don't have, it really is how you treat the one you want, and probably depends on what it is u want. There are no set ways there are billions of different kinds of scenarios.

RoseTinted64 · 2022-03-07T04:29:38+00:00

I’m curious why you think it will take over a decade to get your shit together. Jesus dude.

Either way, anyone who tells you to get your finances in order before meeting women has no idea what they’re talking about.

Alazar1antonio · 2022-03-07T05:37:35+00:00

Listen bud, I’m sorry you are going through this process however you must get your priorities in order. I have some understanding of what you are going through as far becoming homeless; however you MUST get on your feet first period you are very young however you must get yourself together first women will be much happier meeting you and getting together with you once you get it together.

AffectionateFalcon90 · 2022-03-07T07:28:44+00:00

Forget about getting laid,take care of you.This may seem a little nuts,but here you go.Take your ass to the nearest recruiting station, what ever color uniform you think you will look good in. The shock of this life style will help you forget the current predicament that your in. You will get three meals and a cot and a couple of years to reflect on some kind of game plan FOR YOU. Hey even if you're hating every fucking minute of your service time you will put inches on your upper body get crazy ass tats, get to go over seas AND GET LAID LIKE PEANUT BUTTER. IF you die the government will bury you for free and give Mom and Pops some money.-------Sounds a lot better than getting found rapped up in a blue tarp in the park. Good luck young bro.

ApatheticHeretic_101 · 2022-03-07T15:51:40+00:00

Not gonna lie to you...man to man...FORGET WOMEN, right now!

I've been homeless, too. I was about 23 or so. You do NOT want to be homeless. It's not a joke or funny.

It was not easy clawing my way back from being invisible and unwanted. Longest 6 months of my life.

I did not have time to even think about women. I managed to keep my job and find another one, so I could save every penny to afford a cheap apartment. For the next 6 months, I still had trouble having food to eat...I eventually got a roommate and things got easier, but I had to focus on the real issues: Shelter, food, transportation, employment, etc...

Not sure how you think sex is more important than anything you mentioned about your living situation. There will always be sex opportunities later, but becoming homeless isn't something you want to add on to your resume.

Stop fucking around. Get a job. Keep it. Save money. Get a place. Start your life. Time to grow up and man up. It's all fun and games until you're a 30 year old man with nothing to show for it.

erikmalkavian · 2022-08-05T20:41:18+00:00

Go to College

Get a Career in the Sciences (That way you'll be making great money after College) Do Work-Study for a Stipend

Meet hot girls and you have a stable housing situation in College

Title	Struggling with the prerequisites.
Author	Gundam_net
Upvotes	12
Comments	46
Date	March 6, 2022 7:06 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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