What’s a good come back when the woman says I have a boyfriend?

No_Inspection_7176 · 2022-02-23T20:45:25+00:00

Ok it’s definitely not #3 😂

If someone says they have a boyfriend it’s either that they actually have a boyfriend or someone they’re seeing or they’re letting you down easy. Just say okay and keep on keeping on.

Alexander_Bull · 2022-02-23T20:39:15+00:00

Jesus Christ this is cringe. If someone says that I take it at face value and move on. There’s millions of eligible women. Don’t be a shit head. Lots of single girls wanting sex, you don’t have to play creepy detective and figure out if she’s a “slut” lying to you.

Okay, a boyfriend? Bye

shocreddit · 2022-02-23T21:13:17+00:00

I have a girlfriend too... let's just be secret lovers

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-02-23T21:17:19+00:00

No comeback.. she’s basically telling you to go away

Paul_Morgan · 2022-02-23T21:22:44+00:00

Usually, "I have a boyfriend" is a polite way to say "fuck off, I'm not interested"

2022-02-23T20:47:34+00:00

If she has a boyfriend then she doesn't want to cheat and wants you to go away. If she doesn't have a boyfriend and says she does, then shes just trying to make you go away. In either case you are a complete stranger and its really creepy if you try to impose on her when she wants to be left alone.

2022-02-23T21:33:26+00:00

Dude, you need to respect her boundaries, real or made up and move on. She’s either not interested, has a boyfriend or just wants a night out with her friends and to be left in peace.

Respect mate.

Lucazzz14 · 2022-02-23T21:22:52+00:00

Assume that she does and move on. Doesn't matter if it's a lie, she isn't interested in you. Don't take it personal.

A reply? "Oh I'm sorry, I wasn't aware" or in a jokingly way "Lucky guy. But no problem at all". Even if it is some bullshit shit test, fuck that. You want someone who's into you without the games.

Why create drama?

huntersnipern · 2022-02-23T20:52:16+00:00

Two directions you can go one is just basically saying "Hey, that's cool if things don't work out give me a call" and never contacting her again until she reaches out. The other direction is basically be ultra toxic and breakdown her boyfriend until she cheats.

FlatDistance5 · 2022-02-23T23:45:42+00:00

She’s showing heavy disinterest period. If a woman has a boyfriend and she finds you attractive unless she really likes him/or her if she’s a lesbian, she won’t bring them up and you won’t know about it.

But if she is bringing them up, 1 she actually has a boyfriend and isn’t interested 2 doesn’t have a boyfriend and isn’t interested 3 or the rare occasion VERY RARE, she has a boyfriend…. She tells you, she likes you, but now that she told you anything happening between you isn’t her fault, because she told you already

I just count it all the way around as disinterest, and usually say no problem and move on

But i get it, you still want those women too, and a lot of time they be lying to get you out of their face.

So this is how I handle it.

1 I playfully call it out, man you ain’t got no damn boyfriend. (I usually get a laugh but no number, and still a no)

Make a joke. Don’t worry I can keep you occupied in his absence 😏. So far only worked once, out of 1000s of times.

If she answers no to any of these, even if she’s laughing, it’s a no no. Say no problem and move on

Edit: I told one girl, after she told me she has a man: looking for a side 🥷?

She laughed and said yea we can do that. Actually did have a bf, but wanted to fuck. But that’s extremely rare and most of the time they are just disinterested.

surferguy999 · 2022-02-23T20:46:57+00:00

Read her body language.

Is she closed off and appears upset? Better to move on, she has a BF or just doesn’t like you.

Does her body language seem receptive? Keep making convo, and see if she means it. Always trust what a what a women does rather than what she says.

A few of the seduction books and field reports on this subreddit mention this. Sometimes it’s just a way to deter you and you can still take her home.

Personally I would invest a few minutes making small talk and then move on: “I’m not looking for a Gf, just trying to make some new drinking friends”

dinosaur123556 · 2022-02-23T21:15:14+00:00

I mean it all depends on the woman. But if you wanted to make a play just play the rejection off confidently. I woulda said Dang well hit me up if that ever changes I just wanted to have a good time and shoot my shot. Laugh it off and move on. Respect her boundaries but kinda play it off confidently. She may look you up in the future. Never try to sleep with some dudes girlfriend cuz it will backfire on you. If she does it with him she will do it to you. And who cares if she’s lying to you dude. A lot of these girls say they have a boyfriend but most don’t. Find one who doesn’t lie to be nice being detective won’t solve anything but wasting your own time. Find one who doesn’t have a boyfriend and gives you a chance.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-23T20:40:26+00:00

Just say “so?“ and then she will elaborate on what she means

LordCarnifex · 2022-02-23T21:17:07+00:00

There is no comeback. If she has a boyfriend, you respectfully withdraw yourself. If she doesn't and she's telling you she does, that means YOU have fucked up in your interaction prior to that moment and it isn't worth trying to salvage.

2022-02-23T21:56:00+00:00

You simply say “well tell him he’s a lucky man because you’re beautiful. I’m sorry for bothering you, have a good day”

Czekraft · 2022-02-23T23:06:30+00:00

Why are you saying come back? Did she insult you by not giving you the time of day?

2022-02-23T23:30:16+00:00

You have to be the biggest dork on the planet to believe #3

“Shit tests” may be a real thing, but a girl actively letting you down easy is not that

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-02-24T20:30:55+00:00

For alot of girls that is an auto responder. It probably means your approach can be better. It could also mean they have a boyfriend. You have to read the situation and decide whether to walk away or not, but if you stay, just ignore the boyfriend comment and keep talking. The first few mins should be you talking 90% of the time. Just don't keep plowing if she doesn't want you there. Move on if its time to. Just know, many girls will say this as an auto response, so I wouldn't let it deter you too much.

Title	What’s a good come back when the woman says I have a boyfriend?
Author	Less_Tangerine8001
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Date	February 23, 2022 8:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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