How many girls have you been with?

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-15T18:16:20+00:00

I mean, being able to seduce many different women is a sign of good game so it makes sense that people would want to know that. This is a seduction subreddit after all, not a "make friends with women" subreddit.

AnthonyAValera · 2021-12-15T23:12:50+00:00

Im successful with women and focusing on my money now with a beautiful girlfriend, but imo ur advice is not really applicable to guys who have never seen a woman naked or just starting to learn about women. u feel me ? this is a good mindset to have once u dont have approach anxiety anymore and know with complete confidence that u can pull. but if guys have approach anxiety or even social anxiety, they need to focus on conquering that first.

RPslimjim · 2021-12-15T21:04:12+00:00

My n-count is over 100. But I’m also 6’1, 225 pounds of muscle, beard, make 6 figures with my own place and vehicle.

My game is decent. Before I matured I really had to make sure my game was top notch. But as I started to mature and self improve I had to have less game. I could essentially just introduce myself and get a number of take a girl out to coffee and sleep with her in a few dates.

willgo-waggins · 2021-12-16T00:30:44+00:00

I can only identify with your final line.

The rest is just a ramble about your personal choices and methods. And as was stated above, it is t at all applicable to younger men who are brand new to this or green and trying to figure it out.

I don’t talk about how many women I’ve been with in my life because first it is nobody’s business but my own and theirs, and second I long ago got tired of being called a liar, a braggart, a storyteller and the like.

I know my personal history but is not a matter of pride or points. It is what it is. For longer more serious relationships alone starting from mystery first year of college when I met my college GF (and skipping earlier encounters and relationships), the longest (o er one year duration) would count as her, three marriages, and two king term relationships. That is a scant six that account for a LOT of my personal sexual activity time in my life. Before there were several from seventeen when I first slept with a woman until the first LTR. In between which was a lot of time in itself, I honestly forget more than I can remember. They had to be at least short term dating or GF or extraordinary to stand out. ONS’s, casual flings and as I have stated elsewhere I have been a swinger for most of my adult life including with one of my wives so the numbers become exponential in those situations.

But the upshot is that I have learned two very important things. One about myself, and the other a good general lesson.

About myself and sex and sexuality in general, I learned that if you have a connection - even if it is t permanent or long term - the sex is the difference between driving an ordinary sedan even brand new, and driving a fine Italian sports car as fast as you can dream. It really is that different and I am happier and prefer commitment and exclusivity when I have this in life.

The second is that after you learn what works for you to close the deal, you should never pursue ever again to begin things. When you pursue, you give up your power. And I don’t mean in a negative manner as a Narcissist or Dom. I mean you give up your ability to keep yourself and your space and needs from a situation intact. You become a servant, a toady and a fool for something that exists in incredible abundance all around you. And when you do this, you also compromise your personal boundaries.

2021-12-15T17:22:00+00:00

You sound like one of those types who becomes a woman’s friend just to fuck them over.

This is toxic dude.

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2021-12-16T00:15:43+00:00

Seduction is the art of leading a woman to bed but allowing to her believe it was her idea all along. 😁 Fact: we’re guys. We want to fuck; as frequently as possible, as many women as possible, and the prettiest women possible. It’s a basic biological drive to continue our species, refined only by cultural &/ or personal preference & restricted by our frontal lobes.

Providing advice to one who requests it is noble. To provide unrequested advice to one who did not request such advice can be seen as boastful and boorish.

Napalm_in_the_mornin · 2021-12-16T01:03:30+00:00

I’ve been with tens of thousands. I’ve been with women in cars. I’ve been with women in line at the store. Once when I was born.

Title	How many girls have you been with?
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Date	December 15, 2021 5:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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