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Entire-Part1066 · 2021-12-04T13:29:21+00:00

Why would I take advice from someone who can't get laid and why is a guy that can't get laid giving out advice? Your mindset is doomed, you are swimming in your own pity. At your current state, instead of giving advice, you should be taking advice!

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-12-04T13:40:50+00:00

Women want a man with some edge and some balls. Having status isn’t enough. You can be a high achiever, but if you don’t project that in the way you carry yourself, you’re not going to get anywhere.

I’ve always tried to have the attitude in my mind that any woman would be lucky to be with me. It sounds arrogant on the surface, but it’s the mindframe you need to have to be successful

BagEmpty6931 · 2021-12-04T14:07:39+00:00

I have a nice car, Audi, 2014., and I'm above average in looking. Asked girl for a date, she accepted without knowing I have a nice car. Went on a date, sit her in my clean white Audi and drove to the park. I had a lame game, we went trough very boring conversation.

She doesnt want to see me anymore, saw her flirting with dude without car and not so attractive.

Fk apperance, improve game and overall behaviour. Take a risk with them, if being nice doesnt work be a jerk sometimes and see what happens.

kazuechan · 2021-12-04T16:53:00+00:00

You spent so much energy investing your empire that your social game is severely lacking. There’s a reason why broke men living with their mom are still getting laid and have gfs, they have a personality outside of their material accomplishments.

A flashy car might catch their attention at first but it will never keep a woman if she can smell the desperation and lack of a back bone from you. Having the providing mindset for every woman you date is the blueprint for becoming a woman’s simp.

What makes you interesting outside of material possessions?

Humble-Spirit-1704 · 2021-12-04T13:12:40+00:00

I agree completely

norwegiandoggo · 2021-12-04T14:08:06+00:00

You want what you can't have. Girls like you but as soon as they make it known they're not interesting to you anymore. This is usually a defence mechanism that protects you from your fear of failing in a relationship. Whenever you can grab it, you get afraid and try to grab some other honey that isn't interested.

Wabbit_Huntin · 2021-12-04T14:50:31+00:00

I understand the venting but Ngl you sound bitter dude. I say that with no animosity. All love because Ive been there before.. Stop being so outcome dependant. And anyone who piles onto this "poor me" piss train isn't helping. Comments like this add no value to this sub. You (a 30 yr old M) just told a bunch of young men to stop improving themselves because YOU aren't having results. As a young man, younger than 30, I can't have that.. Misguided but unacceptable info nonetheless.

You're frustrated and care too much about what these b*tches want. Now your perception has morphed into a false reality that your ego is comfortable with accepting. Reality is man, when you live life for you and don't care about outcomes with women so much, that's when ladies wanna join the team.

What do you want for yourself? That answer shouldn't revolve around women or a girlfriend. If you're not doing the self improvement for YOU and your CONFIDENCE, then you'll never get the results you want. Material things are supplementary. Nice car, nice clothes, watches. Don't matter. You knew that before getting those things. We all know a guy who's a lazy slob but gets tons of play from ladies. They like nice things, but they want what they want.

At the end of the day there are tons of women in the world. Ton of different preferences. Your 30 dude you probably haven't met a 40% of the women you'll meet in life. Go to the gym for a couple months to build that confidence back up and get back out there man!! And stop caring so much. Wear that energy on your shirt with sublte confidence.That "take it or leave it, I'm happy with myself either way" energy and watch how your mindset shifts. When you care less, your give yourself leverage in the dynamic.

elmsfordays · 2021-12-04T15:23:15+00:00

money is like 1 factor of self improvement and once you have enough it has diminishing returns. you really dont understand women. putting all your eggs in 1 self improvement basket is a common mistake. there are also buff dudes that struggle to get laid too.

NotANerdReally · 2021-12-04T16:52:25+00:00

The fact that you’re trying to give advice from a place of despair suggests that people really shouldn’t be taking advice from you. You said that your interactions with women are “a DISASTER”. That suggests that there’s some part of your personality you should be working on.

Kommoncents1 · 2021-12-04T19:27:42+00:00

Horrible take

SquareKey261 · 2021-12-05T15:53:35+00:00

I don't care how much money you have you sound like a child.

A man should be strong and dependable to look after his own interests and it's a responsibility you have to yourself, not women. The thought you have the money so you are entitled to women is ridiculous lol

DizzyxSin · 2021-12-05T18:30:06+00:00

Stop being a baby

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