[deleted by user]

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-31T22:43:57+00:00

It’s not the place that that makes something creepy, it’s the person. So if you are good at social intelligence and conversation you can approach anywhere. If you are a creepy then it won’t matter at all where you approach, you will always be a creep

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2021-11-01T05:11:17+00:00

Normal. Just be socially calibrated. try to consider their feelings & read their body language while you’re doing it. Most of the time it will be super obvious within the first few seconds if there’s any interest.

TotallyiMar · 2021-10-31T22:43:10+00:00

It’s fine in my opinion. You could ask for directions and go from there.

vamsig66 · 2021-11-01T20:43:18+00:00

Please don’t listen to all these people telling you to approach super indirectly and that approaching directly is weird. What will happen if you approach indirectly, especially on a college campus, is that you will get friend zoned in a heartbeat. You NEED to go in direct. I would prefer to just approach directly and tell them I think their cute and wanted to come introduce myself to them. Even if I do open indirectly, I ALWAYS make it clear at some point that this is man to women and that I’m not just trying to make a new friend by saying at some point “Hey, you’re kind of cute, we should hang out sometime.” That way there is no room for confusion that I’m just trying to make a new friend. It also depends on the size of your campus, if you go to a super small college then going too directly can hurt your reputation, but if you go to any decent sized college, you should be fine as long as you don’t make a big deal of it.

OkSchool209 · 2021-10-31T22:23:03+00:00

as a guy living on a college campus, I say don’t do it unless you have a real reason to. Like I was in a gymnastics club full of girls and I was able to approach and talk to a lot of them because the social setting was appropriate to do so. But often times when people are walking around campus people are trying to get places and do things. So often you’re just in the way, wasting your own time and theirs

Keezymac34 · 2021-11-01T01:24:12+00:00

Yup that all i cold approach at. College is the best place because of the volume which u need not to mention everyone is so wrapped up in what there doing that they dont care about what your doing. Its a perfect place just be respectful i got a number of dates with girls doing cold approach at a college.

ProfessionalOne8518 · 2021-11-01T10:29:37+00:00

Yea first ask help then get to know to them. Just try to be funny and confident during it

rewinder909 · 2021-11-01T10:55:38+00:00

Creep is a strong word, people need to interact to become good at social interactions. Don't think you're a creep, instead think that your social skills are still not on point and you need to keep training until you level up. It's all about mindset. Observe where and what are you failing at and correct yourself. Keep going

2021-11-01T02:09:06+00:00

why wouldn’t it be normal, if you see a fine dime, go and introduce yourself and exchange contact. Maybe she can tutor you 😏 in your dorm.

ooogabooogaboooga23 · 2021-11-01T19:48:34+00:00

Hot take: Cold approaching in college is disgusting. I have met more girls than I can count at parties and in class. To meet women you need to expand your social network and meet the right people. Trust me girls at parties are so easy to talk to, they are there to meet men, dm if you want more info.

Matt_guyver · 2021-10-31T20:22:51+00:00

Just don’t do it in public cause you’ll be labeled a creep.

It shouldn’t be, but #metoo is just another step towards complete oppression

AnxiousScientistDude · 2021-11-01T06:13:39+00:00

If you're Attractive

Title	[deleted by user]
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	18
Comments	34
Date	October 31, 2021 8:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qjxs4i/deleted_by_user/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/deleted-by-user.1273202 https://theredarchive.com/post/1273202

Comments