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[–]CoffinEluder 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you’re a young guy: older women If you’re an older guy: younger women
If you’re a young girl: exist If you’re an older girl: exist
[–]Narcan9 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Five per year for 10 years 🤓
[–]fuzzifikation 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This. Easy. The 5 per year: Go out. Have fun. Talk. That's it.
[–]Narcan9 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is the truth. When I'm dating it tends to be around 4 or 5 women a year. Sometimes there is a relationship for a year or two that's monogamous. Some years it's extra busy 🏃.
After you hit 20 or so, the number becomes irrelevant.
[–]fuzzifikation 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. I'm an older guy in a relationship now. My prime at university was 10-20 a year which then dropped substantially when I started working. The best tip is.. Go out. Be fun. And do not expect anything. The most difficult for me was to learn when to mention going home or just kiss her. Unfortunately, this is not like riding a bike. The timing, the teasing.. It all goes away. Much like playing an instrument.
Having said all of this : never expect anything. Talking, teasing, and all of this should mainly be fun for you. The night afterwards may be alone or not. But flirting itself must be fun.
[–]tacsoe 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Buy hookers
[–]j2bbt238 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Why do you want a high body count? No one finds that attractive.
[+]Appropriate_Ad3327 -9 points-8 points-7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Personal preference. I just want it high lol. And a high body count is good social proof.
[–]bonix 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. Just no. Nobody cares. Especially women. In fact it will turn women away from you. This is a horrible mindset to have and will lead you nowhere in life.
[–]j2bbt238 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
idk what your going on about “good social proof” but go to a big state school if thats your goal.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FYI once you get past 50, you want to lie about your number and never say it's more than 50. Girls get turned off if you tell them more than that, I learned from experience.
[–]Skelvir 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start not to make your selfworth/ego depending on your body count lol
Nobody with high self esteem cares about body count
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Currently at 156 (28M). Majority came from dating apps, but a large chunk also came from traveling (i.e. party hostels, pub crawls, couchsurfing, walking tours). In addition, a decent amount also came from university (student parties and foreign exchanges).
The easiest was probably traveling. Go backpacking in Europe or Southeast Asia, stay in party hostels, and be social. Girls tend to be much hornier when they're traveling outside their own country.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alright. 156 is an impressive number. Hope I could reach that by your age
[–]TallDarkandBot 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Saying a high body count is good social proof is putting the cart before the horse. What you currently have is a results based mindset. The issue with that is your confidence and happiness revolves around the result of an action that is not fully in your control, not the action itself. This can create an imbalance/inconsistency.
Work backwards from the result. Which actions get people laid that is in our direct control? Proper hygiene/grooming, being physically and mentally fit, cultivating a tribe of like minded people (positive feedback loop), having hobbies that build confidence, and being able to talk to anyone. Of course there are more, this is just a direction.
Shifting your mindset to focus on the actions you are taking will yield massive results for you because it’s simple…did you do what you need to become a better person? Yes? Great, do it again tomorrow. Everything else will fall into place after that. Trust.
[–]Gaydame 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm exactly 50 as it happens
And it's mostly because I don't use asshole phrases like "body count"
[–]pukekho 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I must be 50 for sure. Dunno what I did be a decent bloke. Travel in my 20s helped. Bitches are hprny on holiday
[–]earsurgery9 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
approach a tonne. Find the girls who think you are cute. Escalate.
Body count stops being impressive once you realise it's just a numbers game tbh
[–]GordonGecko69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Practice, practice and practice.
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Practice what?
[–]Noigah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dunno, I lost count
[–]ProfitisAlethia 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You definitely have the wrong mindset here. I made my body count a goal when I was younger and because of it I ended up sleeping with a lot of people I regret.
Sleeping with a lot of people doesn't make you cool. Being confident enough in yourself that you don't care how many people you've slept with is what makes you cool.
[–]onelifeinlove -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Practice
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]nokenito -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Body count as dated or just gotten laid or quickies or???
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