Sexual Drought and no confidence with women

DatFanta · 2021-08-11T16:41:37+00:00

i was this way, Go approach women, work up the courage to go talk to 1, then go to the next, don't let the short boost of confidence go, string a chain together.

tristian_lay · 2021-08-11T16:21:07+00:00

Imo when you’re in a relationship you feel like you can get anyone but once you’re out for a while, confidence drains and you’re back to square 1

seerslayer · 2021-08-11T15:44:51+00:00

Just out of curiosity, how old are you? I'm getting back on my feet but my marriage destroyed me too.

justmuro · 2021-08-11T15:43:35+00:00

Sounds like you need a good old round of brute forcing it. Force yourself to make these interactions, go ahead and dive into the deep end. While you do so communicate interest. Say I think your cute, I’d like to take you on a date, etc…

2021-08-11T16:51:46+00:00

You need to get out there and be social. You need to be meeting people especially women. You probably have some issues because of your breakup and need to fix this toxic mindset that isn't doing you any favors.

allusernamearetaken- · 2021-08-11T18:16:04+00:00

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AttackHelicopterUSA · 2021-08-12T01:50:02+00:00

The black guy method

Just talk to every decent girl you see and eventually one will say yes

No-Platform-2184 · 2021-08-11T14:49:58+00:00

Not enough information -- What have you tried? Have you gone on any dates? Do you go out to meet people?

If you are just expecting paths to cross and things to happen, well a pandemic is the worst time for that.

AVGVSTVS_OPTIMVS · 2021-08-11T15:20:16+00:00

Confidence it key, even if you have to feign it.

I was in a drought for a while bc my last relationship wasn't sexual and I took time off of dating after the end of it. Just needed to focus on myself and read alot of books on dating.

McNutz-29 · 2021-08-11T23:52:07+00:00

I made a tinder to help with this. This might sound shallow but I banged a few chicks who I felt were lower than my league. It helped get me back into the comfort of meeting/hooking up with “strangers” and get my mojo back. Then I started going for the hotter chicks with more confidence and go back into my groove

2021-08-11T20:53:02+00:00

Relationship can be draining. Can't offer you any advice but best of luck bro. I'm sure women will be rolling to you as soon as your self esteem is back.

RealHumanBeing2021 · 2021-08-11T21:19:26+00:00

I feel for you. I broke up with my gf in November of 2020 and haven’t had sex since. I’m starting from essentially ground zero myself.

Mrsowrong · 2021-08-12T01:32:00+00:00

Stop jacking off Be kind to yourself Give honest compliment and close

2021-08-11T23:36:17+00:00

Stop thinking it as a drought cuz that will make you feel worse. Go on tinder and get some girls there

Foolforthought080 · 2021-08-11T21:59:35+00:00

Relationship dull your blade , and what other to keep it sharp then to occasional cheat

AVGVSTVS_OPTIMVS · 2021-08-11T18:27:12+00:00

Good! I'm actually dating two other women (something I've never been able to do before. One of them I would like to go steady with.

gillmanblacklagooner · 2021-08-11T18:29:06+00:00

How’s your other life aspects and projects? Any hobbies? Good social life? Go around places with interesting things and subjects to you. If you like art, visit museums. If you are into sports, go to some courts... just some examples. You got it. Expose yourself.

asyd0 · 2021-08-11T18:50:29+00:00

I'm kinda in the same situation, a little bit older (25). But I got fat over covid and while I'm losing weight I'm not even trying, too scared. But i know already that when I'll be in shape again, I'll be even rustier than I am now...

FantasticElephant420 · 2021-08-11T19:05:50+00:00

Bro if you’re 21 and good looking just use tinder and if you want to challenge yourself cold approach women. Maybe even a shirtless pic on tinder if you’re feeling up to it, or at least one showing that you have muscles. Go get it bruh 💪

Woujo · 2021-08-12T01:19:55+00:00

You are too deep in your own head. Just go out and try to talk to people and have fun.

DaxMan12 · 2021-08-12T01:48:52+00:00

Read Models by Mark Manson. Seriously do it.

2021-08-12T03:29:52+00:00

Likewise bro

Title	Sexual Drought and no confidence with women
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	89
Comments	57
Date	August 11, 2021 2:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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