Common reasons a girl doesn’t show for a date and what to do about it

Kenic_In_MD · 2021-07-11T23:12:30+00:00

If a girl is interested, she will make time for you. If she doesn't show, she wasn't interested.

If she doesn't show AND she doesn't tell you ahead of time that is extremely disrespectful. Drop her and move on.

pitterpatter812 · 2021-07-11T23:26:51+00:00

She’s not interested. Move on

shathecomedian · 2021-07-12T01:00:10+00:00

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messymonstro-_- · 2021-07-12T03:41:00+00:00

If a girl lets you wait for an hour and doesn't call or msg you that something came up and she'll be a little later, sorry but she's just a btch. Decent people do not do this. I recently got stood up by a guy, he used work as an excuse etc and in the end I waited to long for some piece of sht that never came. My only tip is, wait as long as is comfortable for you and if someone doesn't have the decensy to call you up front then she's not worth your time. She probably already made you shift your boundries.

Interesting-Brief202 · 2021-07-12T01:49:57+00:00

The reason she doesnt show is that she doesnt actually like you. all you can do is find another girl who does;.

madcow125 · 2021-07-12T11:43:45+00:00

I allow one flake before I cut contact man. It's not worth your time if she doesn't want to see you.

DPEisonREDDIT · 2021-07-12T17:47:40+00:00

Girls not turning up is a bitch move. At least man up and grow some balls and say you’re not interested.

Throwaway7907901 · 2021-07-12T18:21:40+00:00

Number 1 reason is you aren’t good looking and she knows much better looking guys. No amount of game in the world will change lack of physical attractiveness.

UnparliamentaryTea · 2021-07-12T21:44:34+00:00

What you should do about it is presume she isn’t into you and move onto another girl or something else to preoccupy you. As far as the reasons, if she didn’t tell you, it could be anything. Don’t worry about that. I’ve had women cancel dates because they forgot they had something going on which ended up being legitimate and we went out a little bit later. I’ve also had plenty of “sorry I’m busy” or “sorry, just remembered I can’t tonight” with no follow-up later. Just remember you’re the prize, tell her to let you know if she’s ever free and wants to meet up, and let it be. This will save you a lot of wasted time and potential heartache

Title	Common reasons a girl doesn’t show for a date and what to do about it
Author	shathecomedian
Upvotes	17
Comments	25
Date	July 11, 2021 11:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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