• Relax
    • You are not nervous or anxious you are attracted, you just aren't used to that feeling. Accept it, explore it and use it as a compass. Once you learn to accept that feeling as an indication that you should go over to her or that you should get to know her more, your life will change.
  • Free yourself from the outcome
    • Accept that the outcome is never certain, focus on the present moment and enjoy it. Look her in the eyes, take in her beauty and experience what it's like to get to know her, make her laugh or make her blush but do it out of enjoyment of the present moment and without expectation of anything happening.
  • Be authentic
    • Don't lie or omit anything, be you and authentically you which means if you are attracted to her, don't hide it. Show it through your body language, your eye contact, a smile or more personal questions, whatever way comes to you in the moment, just express it.
  • Don't worry
    • Whatever comes out of you in the moment is an expression of you, once it's out there, let it be. It belongs to the past and worrying only allows it to live on in the present. So if you get rejected for a kiss, let it go, it belongs to the past and only you can choose to let it torment your present.

These have been changing my life over the past few months and after lots of writing and journaling I finally crystalised what I was learning. Hope this helps and I'd be interested to read anyone elses input as well.