When you have a crush on a girl, you know you have a crush on her, but you expect the girl to be a mind reader because, to you, it's obvious that you're attracted to her... she's hot, right?

Wrong!

Here's why: Right now, there could be a cute girl who is checking you out from a distance. When your back is turned to her, she could be staring at you, fantasizing about the both of you going on dates and you making her feel sexy and feminine.

Sound far fetched?

Isn't that what you do to women, but with different fantasies?

"I'm a bit of a geek"

Okay, let's say you have a cute chick (let's say a cute, average-looking chick), who tells her friends,

Girl: "I saw [YOUR NAME] today.

Her Friend: "Here we go. I don't know why you like that geeky muthafucka. He is always talkin' about video games and super hero movies"

Girl: "It's funny but that's exactly why I like him. I have a thing for geeky guys. They are very interesting. You know how a lot of those geeky guys watch a lot of porn. They are probably really good in bed"

"How do I know if a girl likes me?"

The only way to do that is to be aware of your surroundings. When women talk to you, pay attention to how they talk to you. Sometimes women flirt, but you don't think they are because you're so stuck on "what does a hot girl like her want with a guy like me?"

When you're aware of your surroundings, you start to notice women checking you out from corners sometimes. If they're doing something, they'll look at you from their peripherals. Sometimes when you pass by, they'll "happen" to need to go to a workstation that you happen to be in your path.

When I see this, it's kinda entertaining. These are the girls you can greet in the morning. If they greet you back, and look a little shy, that's a sign that they may be attracted to you.

Think about a girl you like. Imagine out of the blue, she greeted you with a warm smile. Wouldn't you look a little shy and greet her back?

Try it. Make a fun game out of it. Watch how women act around you. Sometimes when you're looking away, women stare at you. When you catch them, they'll either look in a different direction, snap out of it, or continue staring (they were waiting for you to make eye contact with them.)

I bet when you start doing this, you'll realize that there are a lot of girls who may have been checking you out for the longest.