As a person who was sexually abused I think it really shaped who I am romantically and not just in all bad ways or anything. For example I was molested at 14 by a 40 year old woman and to this day I have a thing for ultra dominant women (who are super sexy but TOXIC for me) and I also have a thing for older women who I seem to have an afinity for talking to. Since the first few sexual encounters I had I literally had to do nothing and could let her take over, I learned that's what to do and became very passive towards women, waiting for them to make a move. My first sexual experiences shaped my seduction game forever, in a way.

For some something like this can trigger bisexual tendencies or weird fetishes, but the important thing is whatever you're feeling is okay. Note that just because it's okay to feel something doesn't mean it's always okay to act on those feelings always (cause in some people this messes them up into thinking illegal things are hot), but a lot of times they actually are okay to act on as long as the girl is down. Just know they're there and don't feel bad about feeling them cause in a way it is expected considering what you've been through.

Anyway my point is this is a HUGE topic NEVER discussed and I think it ends up fucking a lot of guys over really hard and sometimes forever. It really shaped a lot of who I am sexually and explained why I do some of the "odd" things the other guys don't do and why my game is so weird now. Just saying if you had something similar happen know you aren't alone and know that the ways it changed you can be worked with. Everything is going to be fine. :-)

Not a karma whore but maybe an upvote if you've been there and to let everyone else know, "Hey this happened to me too and it's okay."