Fuck your right moment.

While you're waiting for the right moment, a moment of potential action is passing by. While your wondering how to look cool, you're passing up chances to do something that you can learn from.

If you're too concerned about your image, you will never improve with women. You're playing not to lose, so you rarely win. You fear failure, so you rarely succeed.

Whatever your running from, it's chasing you in the opposite direction from where you want to go.

Afraid of looking stupid? You'll look awkward and out of place - or worse, invisible. Afraid of rejection? You won't even get a chance to play.

Here's the honest truth: you have hundreds opportunities to improve every day. Women walk by you. You do nothing.

And then you come to seddit and ask how to talk to "this one girl" who is somehow special yet works at Pizza Hut with you. gtfo

No shit you don't know how to talk to this one girl. You can't talk to any girl.

Game isn't a trick or routine. Instead, it's a skill, one you develop like any other skill.

That's why almost every question here can be answered with:

"Talk to other women."

But when it comes to the specifics of how to deal with "this one girl," this answer is similarly straight forward:

"Do something,... anything. And then learn from it."

If you do something [emphasis on do], you're going to get a response, some real world feedback that you can analyze. If you don't do anything, you don't get any feedback, and you don't learn shit.

Doing something builds the habit of assertiveness and initiative... manly traits which go far beyond just opening sets. Not doing anything creates unhelpful habits of passivity and hesitancy.

Let's put that all together.. Taking action helps you become better with women while coming off as masculine and attractive. Not taking action makes you a socially stunted pussy. In this case, you'd be a socially stunted pussy who consumes tons of pick up content yet never gets laid. How weird is that?

You trying to be smooth makes you look waaaaay more awkward than you realize.

If that stings, good.

Use it to fuel for actually handling this area of your life.

And I see a lot of guys talking about how they're into self-development, but they still don't get laid.

Bro. If you're into self-development and not getting laid, you're probably not doing self-development.

In conclusion...

As a man, your reason for being is to take action. So when you're passive and inactive, you're not living up as a man. This includes women but spans other areas of your life. Perfectionism and wanting to be smooth is just action-inhibiting fear in disguise.

You must push through the fear to become successful.

With women, when you don't know what to do, do something and check the feedback you get.

You could answer a lot of questions yourself by talking to a lot of women, trying shit, and seeing what works. If you did this, you would become an icy pimp with multiple fwbs instead of the guy who is asking strangers online about how to talk to a coworker without seeming creepy.

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