Step 2: Don't be unattractive

This is often used as a sort of a running joke on Reddit when the premise of how to attract ladies appears. But it is actually 100% accurate. If you want to get laid, you have to be attractive and be damn sure you are not unattractive. Let me break it down for you.

Step 1: Be attractive

It's funny because it's true.

Have you noticed how it isn't "Be handsome", but "Be attractive"? The problem is that we, men, view attractiveness as physical attractiveness because, duh, that's how men generally judge if a woman is attractive or not.

How do you become attractive? By working on your inner game. By developing a strong set of beliefs and values, by not allowing anyone cross your boundaries, by exercising and eating healthy, by developing yourself and improving yourself, by defining your own path and becoming your best version. Not every man is handsome, but every man can become attractive. Talk to people -especially women- by looking them in the eyes, be assertive and become a man of value.

If you want to be naturally handsome, well... It's a lottery... You may have had bad luck with your genes. There's not much to do. Women wear makeup because that's how they improve their physical attractiveness. Men rely on their confidence. And that is hard to cheat for a long term.

Women value men who they feel safe with.

Step 2: Don't be unattractive

Sounds correlated to Step 1, because it is, but there's more: don't be creepy. Don't be toxic. Work on yourself to improve your outer game.

Step 1 is about conquering yourself and improving. Step 2 is about honing your social skills.

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Always remember that the path to attracting women starts with loving yourself first enough that you would do everything necessary to live a life of fullness and, as a result, it will make you attractive to them.

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Cheers