Night Game is a more about the environment, not about the time of day. Typically, night game is a high energy social gathering. The energy of the environment determines if it is night game of day game.

The high energy environments are accompanied by music, alcohol, dancing, people looking to have a good time.

Examples of night game environments are night clubs, bars, parties, concerts, music festivals. It’s called night game because, these events typically take place at night when people are not working. People are to have fun, and socialize. An example of night game events that happen during the day are pool parties, day parties, and day clubs. They are very similar in the sense that it is high energy and people are there specifically to have fun.

Pros-

Abundance - In a Night Game environment, there are going to be a lot of people in one area, which means, there will be a lot of girls in that area. There is a bigger potential for meeting more girls in a short amount of time, opposed to a place like the mall. It will also allow you to build momentum and get into a talkative state. Being in a talkative state can give you the momentum you need to allow your conversations to flow smoothly. One thing you can do to help with this is to talk with your friends before you arrive to a Night Game environment. Have a rule that there cant be silence for more than 30 seconds.

Additionally you will have a sense of abundance. It's the ideal mindset to have because it will give effect your inner game. If you have 100,000 dollars and lose 100 dollars, you wont be affected by it. You will be ok. If you only have a 1000 dollars and lose a 100 dollars, you’ll be more stressed losing it. So if you are around a lot of attractive girls, and if you get “rejected” by one of them, it wont matter to you. If you have the opposite mindset which is a scarcity mindset, you will feel more anxiety to approach, less likely to take risks such as escalating physical affection the interaction, and you will more likely be affected by the outcome.

Social value - when you are meeting women in a party type of environment you can use social value to your advantage. Social value is demonstrated by the people you surround yourself by. They can bring up your value in a woman eyes, or lower it. If you have a cool group of friends that are a lot of fun it will be used to your advantage. If they are good-looking then it also benefits you. Having girls around you is the ultimate way to show your social value. This is why it is highly beneficial to have a group of girls that are attractive, that you do not try to hook up with. They can give you greater rewards just by being your friend. If you go to a club or bar alone, which is something you will have to do sometimes, then having a group of girls that you just met will raise your social value. When I first started, and would go out alone, I would meet girls and use them as my home base and social value. I will then introduce the girl I like to my new group of friends and girls I meet. You cant really do this in a Day Game environment.

Demographic- Going to a Night Game environment, you are more likely to find the right demographic. You should choose where to go based on the demographic, the type of girl you’re attracted to, the age range, their social status etc. But typically any night game environment you will have a higher probability of meeting women who are not married, without kids, single, and not too old or too young. You will also have a higher selection of girls who are physically attractive, in one location.

Girls just want to have fun! The party environment puts people in a good state which makes it so they are more open to conversation and meeting new people. In these type of environments its expected that guys will approach them. The sad is, most of the guys who approach them get rejected because they don’t do it the right way. Just 10 percent of guys at a Night Game environment approach women and the everyone else doesn’t wishing they could. Music and alcohol helps put women in a great state. It gives you an opportunity to add to their fun instead of you building up the fun from scratch. By taking advantage of this, she will you can escalate the interaction very quickly and take it far.

Affection Easier to build comfort through physical affection. Physical affection is extremely essential to building attraction with a girl. You want a girl to be comfortable with your touch and more importantly you want to giver her the opportunity to touch you. Touch is the key component to affection. You want to be someone that she can be affectionate with. It is the biggest difference between platonic relationships and romantic ones. It is one of the main reasons why guys end up in the friend zone. In a Night Game environment you are more likely to give hugs, physically flirt, even kiss them in this high energy environment, oppose to a quiet environment such as the mall.

She is likely to go on an adventure! What I mean by this is when meeting meeting a girl at a Night Game environment, ie when that club ends they want to keep the fun going. So she is likely spontaneously go somewhere else with you like an after party, go eat with you, maybe even go home with you. You may be thinking that you don’t want to meet a girl at a nightclub or party environment, you want to meet a good girl, and good girls don’t party which is a huge misconception. The truth is, every so ofte

n the smartest, most educated girl, the one you want to settle down with, introduce to your family, and marry, will occasionally go to a night club or a party especially if it’s for a celebration.

The biggest benefit to nighttime is that you can meet girls and form a bond a lot quicker. You can build attraction a lot faster. Everything moves at a faster pace. So you can potentially get more bang for your time in these environments. You can meet more women and go a lot further if you know what you are doing. And personally for me, it is a lot more fun. I am also enjoying the music the environment and the new connections that I make!

Night Game Cons and Disadvantages.

Many Obstacles - Girls who go to social gatherings very rarely travel alone. That means that they will be around their friends, or family ( of the same generation), or someone they are in a relationship with. So what this means is that these people that she is around can be very protective of her. The girls friends will look for girl signals to be saved by some random guy attempting to hit on her, even worse her friends might even take it upon themselves to save their friends from what could possibly a good time. But if you are doing this correctly, you are minimizing this risk. What is very likely to happen is that her friends are going to get impatient and bored by you taking all the attention away from her friend or flat out get jealous. To avoid this make sure that you are also giving attention to her friends. You want to be extremely warm with them, so if you were on camera the people watching would think that you are being a lot nicer to the friend than the girl you actually want. This is where being that nice guy plays to your advantage, because you want to be so warm that you are not building attraction with the friend, and by being extremely nice, she will friend zone you and thats what you want. Make it apparent that you are not hitting on the friend but be flattering. You can actually give compliments to the friend. Win her over!

Another obstacle is her gay friend, brother sister family, are going to want to protect her. She is going to have the social pressure around her of looking easy. She does not want to be judged. These are things to be aware about. Most importantly the hardest one to address and the one that is likely to make you fail is called an Orbiter. It’s a guy friend but not just any guy friend, its the guy friend who wants to be with the girl and secretly likes her. He is the one who is most invested in her, and does not want to lose his investment. He typically buys the girls drinks, buys the girls dinner and he really wants to be with her, but she friend zoned him. But she feels comfortable around him, he’s protective of her and has him around because he’s nice to her. He hopes that one day shell realize he’s the one for her so he keeps trying. Don’t get mad if people interrupt your interactions. Its part off the game and the better you get at it the less it will happen, and if it does happen you will know how to handle it.

Accessibility - Applies more at the advanced level. I know people are against the number rating but in truth it does exist. It would be a great world if everyone was equally as attractive but the reality is that there are universally more sought after than others. So your dream girl, the girl you consider to be a 9 or 10 will likely be in the VIP areas. They are harder to get to. They go to places that are exclusive. And those exclusive places have a red rope, and once you get behind the red rope, those women are at their own VIP section, (at a table). They are surrounded by people who are protective of her. Sometimes sections have security which prevents you from reaching her section. Even if you can make your way to the table and get accepted by her peers, she is more likely to be sitting in the middle of her friends. Logistically she will be the hardest to get to. It would be awkward for you to by pass everyone, move people out of the way, stepping on some toes just to talk to her. Next time you go out, pay attention, you’ll notice that the girl you want will be in the the position that is the hardest to get access to. I’ve always wondered if the most beautiful girl chooses to the middle and surrounds herself by her friends or if the friends subconsciously surround the most beautiful girl protecting her. This is a phenomenon I do not know the answer to. I just know that it’s the way it is.

So accessibility is a your dis advantage when it comes to that type of environment. As for me, I built a lifestyle around meeting women and now get invited to those VIP sections because I bring the value. Eventually I want you to be in these sections, not because you spend so much money, but because you know a lot of women. The only way to bring value to the table without paying is by bringing the attractive women. This will be taught in my courses. But understand that how venues make their money, by creating an elite section where they can charge more. Through this skill set you can be good enough to make your way to the elite section and successfully assimilate to a new group of people, or at even a higher level, be the one getting invited to it.

Hard to Hold The Girls Attention- Imagine a girl, she is out with her friends, her favorite dj or artist is performing, she’s having fun dancing and drinking, then a stranger comes up to her. It is going to be extremely hard to gold her attention. Especially with the younger generation, 18-24, the girls attention is all over the place, With phones and social media there is so much stimulus. The good news is I do show how to hold a girls attention. All these cons I am mentioning are easy to overcome and why it is important to actually have interesting and fun things to say than the typical line of you are beautiful.

Less memorable- Remember she is most likely going to be drinking. She will meet a lot of people. She will give other guys her number. I do teach how to be extremely memorable even if she met 100 people that night. there are ways to help her remember how much fun she was having with you. And even if it was a quick interaction.

She has been hit on many times- Girls get hit on a lot at a club, and if you are the 10th guy to hit on her, you are at a disadvantage, if the guys before you failed and did a poor job, they are going to have a strong wall. This is the weakest con and extremely easy to overcome. The first 2 cons that I mentioned before require more experience to overcome, but with my experience, still extremely easy.

What is day game?

Day game is also EVERYWHERE and ANYWHERE GAME. Its anywhere that is not a club, bar, party scene. Day is game is low energy. Meeting girls, on the street, airport, coffee shop, the beach, theme parks, on a hike. Being able to approach girls in typical settings, no matter the time, place or situation. You never know when you’re going to meet the girl of your dreams or a girl you’re very attracted to, and having the ability to successfully connect with her is very fulfilling. And this is why I love day game!

Day Game Pros

Slow Pace One of the advantages especially for beginners is that interactions happen at a much slower pace. There is less stimulation in the environment so its quieter, and calmer. Beginners who aren’t used to the nightlife may get overwhelmed with it. There are plenty of guys who don’t like nightlife or have early morning and being out at night all the time may be draining. Day game doesn’t require the high energy as going out to a nightclub or party.

Accessibility - Girls are more a lot accessible. Its very possible that the same girl who is behind the red rope, at a venue you cannot get into, or surrounded by all her friends who want her attention, to be found alone or with one other friend in a casual setting. Some examples are laying out at the beach, running her daily errands or at a shopping at the mall.. You can really take advantage of this accessibility. She does not have the pressure from social her peers judging her for flirting with a guy she has just met. Her girl friends are more understanding of this, but guy friends who are attracted to her will not like you approaching and attracting her, especially if he’s the one buying her drinks and treating her out. Girls do not have the pressure to spend time with friends as much as they do when going out to party, or celebrate with their friends.

Can hold their attention - Its easier to hold her attention, because nothing else is distract her. There isn’t a DJ or performer she wants to see, there is the music that makes her want to dance, or any other guys competing for attention.

You can build more comfort. Many guys fear day game because they are worried about the people around them. They feel judged, like its not socially appropriate to approach girl. What many guys don’t realize is that in a girls mind, she imagines meeting the guy of her dreams in the day time. She imagines meeting a guy through serendipity, having a guy come up to her making her laugh and making her day. You can take advantage of instant dates. An instant date is a date that happens right after meeting her. Most people in the day time try to go straight for a number, but the better option is to invite her to lunch, a coffee or a drink, at the time of meeting her. If you do this you must build some type of attraction, comfort, or interest. Going on an instant date allows to to build more comfort, and attraction right away.

She will remember you. She will be sober when you meet her, and she will be a lot more comfortable knowing that she met you sober. Also, an attractive girl gets hit on many times in one night or meets a lot go guys at a bar or club. Meeting someone in the day time is rare, so she will definitely remember your interaction.

A solid connection -You are meeting her at a low energy state which means that everything you talked about and planned in the future is more true. Have you ever been excited about an idea and then when the time comes, you don’t feel like doing it because you were either drinking or just in an excitable state? Thats what its like for a girl when she agrees to go out with a guy she meets in a Night Game environment. She will be extremely excitable, and agree to any plans you make. If you meet her in a low energy state, and she agrees to see you again, she will most likely stick to it.

Day game sharpens your technique. In the nightclub you can get away with a lot of errors because of the loud music, alcohol and someones good state, so the girl will be more forgiving. You’ll also be in a good state, because you’re having fun, giving off good energy and vibes will let you get away with poor technique. There is a lot more room for error. Not only is she more forgiving because she is having fun, but if you are having fun, your vibe can overcome sloppy technique. Things like distance and body language play more of a role Day. In a night club you are almost forced to be very close to her so there isn’t much variation between distance. A lot of my students find day game difficult if they get use to much on nighttime environments. That is because in day game the girls state is low, and it is up to you to build her state up. You don’t have alcohol music and a stimulating environment to help you. Day game is a better truth teller to your skill level.

Day Game Cons

Scarcity -There are less girls in a Day Game environment. unless you are walking in places like New York city. And the girls in that area are not going to be your demographic. Going out to places that isn’t a party scene, is going to have girls that are too old, married, kids, too young. There is a lot more weeding out. Also it is less efficient. For example if I’m in a nightclub or bar, I can talk to one girl and after that conversation 30 seconds later I can start talking to another one. In the day game environment, After talking to one girl, it make take me five to ten minutes finding another one that I ‘m attracted to. You have a lot less momentum during day game, because of the time in-between when you are not talking to anyone.

You will have a scarcity mindset. You may feel nervous because of this. You may feel that there is pressure on you or care more about succeeding because of the scarcity of girls around. This applies more for beginners but as, you become proficient at this skill, this won’t apply to you anymore because all anxiety and nervousness will eventually go away.

The Scarcity Mindset happens and people do not realize it. This happens when people obsess over one girl. People with the abundance mindset don’t stress over one girl, which makes them come off as confident. Instead of caring if one girl flakes out on plans, you can invite another one who is more committed to seeing you. People with an abundance mindset make better judgments when picking girls to date, and picking the ones to have as friends. They are less likely to have to put up with bad attitudes, rude behavior or negative energy. Most of the guys who come to me always have one girl they really want who has friend zoned them. I always ask them to show a picture and then I show them pictures of girls in my circle and it’s like they snap out of hypnosis. Its very common to have the scarcity mindset when you only depend on your one social circle. Let’s take the office environment for example. A lot of guys will crush on that one or few girls who are semi attractive, all it requires is that she wears a skirt and heels once in a while. Because they are in an environment with such scarce attractive women, those girls look like 10s to them and get caught up in chasing their validation. Any environment where girls are scarce, they are going to be more caught after than an environment with an abundance of attractive girls. When this happens, I call this the Office effect.

Strong Agenda Girls in the day time often have a strong agenda. They are on their lunch break, running an errand, or need to get somewhere fast. Pro tip: it does not matter whether she is on the phone or in a rush. Your duty is to talk to her because what you have to say is more important than her agenda. The value that you you give being in her life, is more important than her current situation. So yes, it is essential stop a girl when she seems busy. If you are approaching her with the right attention and say the right things then you are doing her the favor. If you come up to her just to say she is beautiful or small talk, then you are taking and wasting her valuable time. There are a few places where girls will not have a strong agenda and will be out for leisure and just lounging such as the beach, mall or just waiting for a flight at the airport.

Less Physical Affection Another con is that it is harder to escalate physical affection, because personal space is more important in a day game setting. People aren’t close together like they are at a night club. People aren’t in the state of being social or as open. You still build some type of affection but not as much and not as fast. Examples would be like a high five, handshake ( a romantic one not a business handshake) and on some occasions hugs. In nightclub you can pick girls up, give them hugs, kiss them.

Proximity. She’s not going to be in your range to start talking to her. So its going to be obvious that when you approach a girl in the day time you have to be direct with the fact that you are approaching her. You won’t have plausible deniability , so you have to commit to approaching her. It can be more frightening going across the mall 50 ft to talk to the girl, or catch up to a girl who is walking at high speeds as appose as to talking to the girl who is right next to you in a crowded space.

Both day game and nightime are great ways to meet girls. I recommend you learn and practice both. As you can see both have their benefits and their challenges. If you hate clubs, bars and parties, learn to love them, If you are terrified of daytime because its not normal approaching girls in non social settings go out and do it. We don’t enjoy what we are not good at. So once you become proficient at this skill, it will become fun for you. You never know when you’re going to meet the girl of your dreams. The differences in the two environments require slight changes in technique and energy. Someone who is good at night game should also be good at day game and vice versa. Beware of people people say they only focus on one or the other especially coaches. They don't have the knowledge to make the necessary changes to adapt, or their game is incomplete.

In the beginning I recommend practicing day game. Go to places where there is a lot of traffic and you are likely to meet girls you find attractive. When you get more experience, you will not have to do this. I only do Day Game at my convenience when I happen to be out running errands or daily activities grocery and I see a girl that I am attracted to. I live in the city in West Hollywood where it is likely I will run into a girl I am attracted to during the day while I’m grocery shopping, at the gym, or just right outside of my apartment building. The ability to just turn it in on and game at any moment and integrate Day Game as part of your daily life will save you time, make your day fun, and give you a feeling of power.