Seduction can be overwhelming at times. Especially if you are just getting into it. Having observed a number of naturals over the years and even seeing a few of my friends progress from being too shy to even dance to getting multiple F closes in one day, I realize that all the tips and methods from inner game to openers simply speed up your transformation from AFC to PUA. At the end of the day you can naturally improve your social skills, lose AA and become a skilled seducer by simply approaching women on regular basis. You should be able to figure out what works and what does not for yourself. You will be able to read women and make appropriate responses naturally without giving it a second thought.

I remember when I first started to play pool competitively and my whole body, not just my hands shaking uncontrollably during my first match as a building full of people watched my every move. First game did not go that well. In fact, I felt sick and never wanted to play again. Thousands of games later however there is not a hit of anxiety left. I'm relaxed, I joke around and I enjoy every minute of it. Whenever I get my ass kicked I shrug it off and move on. I've seen it all now. The same thing with women. Approach enough women and soon it will feel natural to you. When it feels natural you feel confident. When you feel confident you already have all the technicals like alpha posture, attraction, tone of voice, body language etc. and because you are now experienced, you already know what to say and when to say it because you've seen it all.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you need to start approaching women now and study seduction as you go along to help you develop your skills quicker rather than trying to absorb tons of all the good info you read here and then go out and try to do something with it. Guess what? The first x approaches you will make are going to be just as nerve-wracking whether you know a lot about seduction or not. Like my first pool match. Do you think I would have been less nervous if I knew everything about pool?

PS: This is aimed at those guys who are hesitant. I know there are some guys here who already approach women on regular basis and are here to improve their success rates etc.