You can't seduce a woman that doesn't like you already

The_Sir_Galahad · 2021-04-16T00:16:46+00:00

Pointless post, seduction was never about getting the girls that don't like you. It's about attracting the ones that are NEUTRAL to you into a favorable liking to you.

earsurgery9 · 2021-04-15T21:50:01+00:00

Of course.

Although honestly, (almost) everyone knows this nowadays

The community has moved on from the mysterymethod days where the pua marketing was all about MAKING a girl attracted who isn't (with negs etc lol)

People aren't quite as gullible nowadays (thanks to youtube etc) and know that 'game' is really just about being able to capitalise on existing attraction (flirting, escalating etc which I guess is why Mark Manson is so popular)

Not in magically 'creating' attraction

It's the same both ways. A girl i'm not attracted too can't do anything to change my mind (and make me want her sexually)

gbizzle2 · 2021-04-15T22:50:29+00:00

This is precisely why cold approaching is counterproductive. The ones who give you "a chance" are the ones that we're already attracted before you cold approached. Its not the cold approach per say that gets a man with a woman

shaggy2gay · 2021-04-16T00:29:56+00:00

Disagree pretty strongly. Pickup has perhaps drifted too far from the halcyon days of Mystery Method. If you don't think that your behavior can cause a woman to become attracted to you over time, then you're doomed to run on this hamster wheel of spam approaching (or, more likely, talking yourself out of approaching at all) forever.

A woman that likes you from the jump is easier to pick up. Yes. A woman who's indifferent or ambivalent towards you can also be picked up if you do the right things over an adequate span of time. Even a woman who despises you can be picked up, because strong emotions have porous boundaries.

To say that there's no point trying to create attraction in women is like saying there's no point trying to ski anything but bunny hills.

yurifca · 2021-04-15T22:01:56+00:00

Yes true but your skills increase as time goes on. Make sure you work on your weak points I made a post about it otherwise yes it’s a numbers game guys are too scared to put in the hard work and approach enough women

UselessBrakes · 2021-04-16T08:48:39+00:00

I feel like this is an important post because even if this seems obvious, it isnt to a lot of people! Some men are led through films and sitcoms to believe that if they only say the right magic words, act confident, glow up, get on the team, get rich or join a successful band, «that one popular girl from high school» will start liking them. That is not how it works at all. People who never liked you will not magically change their mind if you only «level up» enough. Doing those things above will increase your chance of meeting someone, but it will not magically grant you the specific one you picked out in your dreams.

Slow-Association6105 · 2021-04-16T03:02:25+00:00

OP this is gibberish

eyesopen1111 · 2021-04-16T13:02:14+00:00

One aspect of having no Game is that you sincerely do not know what is possible with seduction, so all sorts of wrong information comes out.

Have you heard the story of how the first guy who broke the 4-minute mile made liars of all the "experts" who said it was impossible and the loser-runners who couldn't run fast enough? Losers generally do not want to work harder and improve performance, so they claim things are impossible because it protects their self esteem.

The same is true of seduction--for every guy who is actually doing the work, learning about female psychology, humor, conversation, sexual techniques, etc., there are 50 guys who will have read nothing, practiced nothing, and who have accomplished nothing.

wallynext · 2021-04-16T17:47:48+00:00

Actually no, I have seen a lot of guys getting girls that initially didnt like them, or didnt even find them attractive

kbecel · 2021-04-15T22:45:15+00:00

I don't necessarily agree the text on the title is true 100% of the time. I don't disagree on what you say next

realhero83 · 2021-04-16T04:34:58+00:00

Jesus, this should be in the Bible it's so profound.

Tall_Butterscotch_32 · 2021-04-16T07:55:11+00:00

Nothing is set stone.i was once with a girl who didn't like me at first, then few years later she was in my arms.the point is peoples change all the time.

You can't seduce a woman that doesn't like you already

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Title	You can't seduce a woman that doesn't like you already
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Date	April 15, 2021 9:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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