X-post from r/sex - casually mentioning sex 30-60 mins before

TheSicilianDude · 2016-01-28T18:34:40+00:00

I think it's risky. Lots of girls will say no (even if they want to do it) just to avoid looking like a slut. I casually mention sex often, but indirectly, e.g. I simply talk about sexual topics rather than just straight up asking if we're having sex. If she reciprocates, that's a good sign. From what I've learned, girls want it to "just happen" and be led into it, rather than put on the spot like that.

I wouldn't use that line unless I've already slept with a girl.

innitgrand · 2016-01-28T15:24:40+00:00

Although being clear about this can be good, it feels less organic and isn't the best for seduction. Girls like to be swept up in the moment and assuming attraction and escalating works better for getting a girl into bed. That being said, you can eliminate buyers remorse after having sex by being direct. I personally never do it unless I've already slept with the girl or if I think that she might regret it.

sederrr · 2016-01-28T13:24:40+00:00

It's aimed at women but the point about direct communication to avoid misunderstanding applies to all of us.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-01-28T17:54:58+00:00

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DownvotesCatposts · 2016-01-28T23:08:54+00:00

This is easily the fastest way a guy could cock-block himself, so if that's what you're looking to do this is a great strategy.

nobody2000 · 2016-01-29T15:58:55+00:00

I'm done.

You're not supposed to take this post literally - but you need to take the spirit of this post. So far, the top comments completely ignore this, and everyone's circlejerking about playing it safe.

What the fuck happened to this subreddit?????

If you're a goober and you hem and haw this type of line - of COURSE you're going to blow it. Of course it's going to fail . Of COURSE you're going to look like a creep.

But if you're confident. If you have built up rapport. If you study seduction and practice it enough, you'll be able to deliver any line and get results.

How in the HELL do any of you expect to get laid without taking risks...honest...out-of-your-comfort-zone risks??? Why the fuck are any of you here?

Goddamn. OP - good post. It'd have been nicer with some more context or discussion, but it's still a good post.

Everyone else - shame on you for playing it safe. Put down your fucking books, your online PUA blogs, and all that bullshit, grow a pair, get out there, and try lines like this.

Unless you honestly prefer masturbation.

Title	X-post from r/sex - casually mentioning sex 30-60 mins before
Author	sederrr
Upvotes	86
Comments	17
Date	January 28, 2016 1:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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