Seddit: Would you chase a girl with a boyfriend?

die_troller · 2010-08-20T07:47:46+00:00

No. because Karma is a motherfucking bitch. If she cheats with you, she can cheat on you.

TBelg · 2010-08-18T12:15:57+00:00

Would you like it if you had a girlfriend and you see someone flirting with her?

It is really easy to answer your own questions by just putting yourself in their situation.

strongoaktree · 2010-08-18T21:28:28+00:00

If a girl is single, you have the whole world to compete with. If a girl is taken, you only have to compete with one.

HITEKK · 2010-08-18T08:22:13+00:00

If she sees interest in you, it's probably that this guy doesn't satisfy her. Your goal in the game is to show the best version of you to people (especially to women ), so if she likes you more than him, why not ? You may however assure that if you go out or sleep with her that this guy is out of the picture, because boyfriend drama is never good.

poncedeleon · 2010-08-18T13:41:35+00:00

The only time I've ever stopped gaming a girl I liked was when her boyfriend turned out to be a really close friend of mine.

Keep in mind the title "boyfriend/girlfriend" doesn't keep people together, it is the emotional relationship that keeps people together. If this is weak, and the girl is looking for something better (you), then it's not your fault. You have no control over the status of their relationship.

throwawayrarst · 2010-08-19T19:30:58+00:00

Is the guy real, or is it a shit test?

philosarapter · 2010-08-18T14:13:48+00:00

I do not chase. I offer them the opportunity of getting to know me.

As for girls with boyfriends: Remember you don't have to be better than every guy out there, just her boyfriend. She's capable of making her own decisions, if that so happens to be you, then so be it.

Weaponized_Dairy · 2010-08-18T18:01:36+00:00

I found that plenty of females will branch swing. Its more common in my small town, maybe smaller towns altogether. Girls will always be looking for a better deal.

Would I? Yes, I make no bones about it either. It has, or will happen to many guys at some point, so no reason to play the chivalrous guy.

I even have a few tricks to influence her. :)

Just be warned if she does this, cause it means she might do it to you, so don't be surprised, however if your game is tight then there is little to concern yourself with. You got her with your game, you should be able to keep her with your game.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-08-18T16:03:18+00:00

What is this about she seems to have a boyfriend? Did she tell you she has a boyfriend? That's a common lie just to shield from the initial approach. Or sometimes women mention a boyfriend as a shit test. If she mentions a guy by name, that can be a better indicator of whether the boyfriend is real. If you don't know she has a boyfriend, I'd proceed as if she doesn't have one. There are plenty of IHAB routines. I remember one, she says IHAB, you say, "and I have a dog that can juggle." She acts puzzled, and you say, "I thought we were talking about things that were irrelevant."

Remember, all girls have been someone else's boyfriend. You remind me of one of the final scenes in "Wayne's World," the creepy playboy (Christopher Walken) who is after Wayne's girlfriend goes to the gate of the concert and doesn't have a ticket. He demands to get in, "My girlfriend is in there!" The bouncer replies, "A lot of guys' girlfriends are in there." Ha.

tjuan · 2010-08-18T22:31:22+00:00

Yes. Who are we to assume she is pleased with her relationship? If you are doing pickup right, you are doing the girl a favour -- it shows her how life should be. Maybe nothing will come between you and her, but you will be leaving her "better than you found her" as she will know what to expect from a partner in the future. I've had girls dump their guys shortly after I dated them (we weren't exclusive and weren't "together" after the break up), they simply realized what their lives were lacking from their current BFs.

Title	Seddit: Would you chase a girl with a boyfriend?
Author	aeoz
Upvotes	4
Comments	27
Date	August 18, 2010 7:28 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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