[US FR #3] F-closing a waitress at a bar

pickup_startist · 2010-12-24T13:32:58+00:00

You've easily become my favorite poster over the past month or so.

executex · 2010-12-24T22:13:39+00:00

TofuTofu, I thank you for your great FRs... But can you please insert more dialog? A lot of times you skip some areas of dialog (or maybe cannot remember them), where many of us struggle most. I'd appreciate more examples, more tactics, and more dialog instead of just the general strategy you used.

Example: What did you say to be cocky funny to people around you?

The examples and dialog you already gave was really helpful! Thanks. Do want, moar.

rensfriend · 2010-12-24T17:04:21+00:00

props to poster but this line made me chuckle

He recently came out of the closet and is obsessed with sports so we always have lots to talk about.

TofuTofu · 2010-12-24T22:45:43+00:00

nice FR. I think the most important aspect that we should take away is the path of least resistance idea. be aware of the situation and try to trust your gut instinct. remember: WOMEN WANT TO FUCK TOO.

they are looking for an opportunity to get laid as well, and lots of times, if they don't know you, and you don't know any of there friends, that is a PLUS, because they know they won't get called a slut/easy because no one will ever find out. once you prove that you're somewhat of an interesting guy, and not gonna rape/murder her, and she thinks your attractive enough for a one night stand (which honestly isn't that high of a standard) you're in.

that's what tofu did a good job with. he realized: "alright, this chick is working here, but yet she came over to talk to ME, after her shift." that's a huge IOI. and he knew, like i said above, THAT WOMEN WANT TO FUCK. they just need to be put in the right situation, since society looks down on them making approaches. and BAM, game over.

nice job.

MOAR_FIELD_REPORTS · 2010-12-24T15:27:15+00:00

Good point about just giving them something to work with - if she's still there, she wants things to move forward too.

But it was surprising she'd just drive you to her place right away. How did that happen?

I'm a bit uncomfortable about the idea of "being the party" too.. it just feels unnatural, and reminds me of some loudmouth idiot jock or something. Maybe I'm misunderstanding something?

HipsterCasanova · 2010-12-24T15:59:26+00:00

I wanna sarge with your butt soo bad.

DeceptiveResolution · 2010-12-24T13:22:54+00:00

I think I need a seduction vocab lesson...

2010-12-25T05:26:39+00:00

really? family guy was the case closer to get back to her place? i'm sure there are much easier ways than going back to your house to get your laptop. but hey, it worked

costas_0 · 2010-12-24T16:43:25+00:00

Great FR ! I enjoyed reading it lots. Hopefully the Florida ones will be as good.

huyvanbin · 2010-12-24T19:26:28+00:00

What was the "speak loudly and see who responds" opener? I.e. how did you bring up the accident without it seeming too negative?

IcarusLives · 2010-12-25T02:27:00+00:00

1) Were the two of you isolated when you offered to watch the show at her place, or was that still with your friend around?

2) Did you have a backup plan in case she said no to your proposition or started questioning it? What if she teasingly said something like "Oh I don't know, what are you trying to do there?"

absolutebeginners · 2010-12-26T19:58:21+00:00

Nice man, you sound fun

thrown_uway · 2010-12-24T23:28:17+00:00

You're sounding like a guy who is a total natural and is only holding himself back with MM. MM is super old too, RSD is way better and will bring you the success I believe you deserve.

In your AM FR+2 you described how you couldn't get this super hot hb9 bartender because she walked off to talk to her friends. MM doesn't teach you this, but you could've been like "HEY!" and gotten her to come back. It's all about nimbus bro.

bonkdaddy · 2010-12-25T01:30:16+00:00

how tall are you?

chumpta · 2010-12-24T19:13:02+00:00

I believe strongly in taking the path of least resistance. So much of pick up theory is mental masturbation and people can overcomplicate the simplest things. Is she attracted to you? Is she horny? Just give her an excuse to go bang.

sometimes you can get caught up in the "progression models" so much and actually overdo it. nice job.

Mat_Cauthon · 2010-12-26T01:20:00+00:00

I've always wondered: does anyone know if you are more likely to F-close at her place or your place?

2010-12-28T06:33:28+00:00

What part of Florida are you going to be in?

UnicornDolphin · 2010-12-24T18:01:55+00:00

Oh now I get why your first US FR didn't end in an F-close, because it would be too unbelievable if all of your FRs ended in F-closes, so just some of them will. You're pretty good at faking these, keep it up.

thrown_uway · 2010-12-25T06:49:12+00:00

Yea nice sarcasm sir. You're very good but still operating within the confined lines of an outdated method. Naturals can break all the rules and still get the girls, because they've transcended the training wheels. Negs don't matter, IOI's don't matter. Assume attraction.

Title	[US FR #3] F-closing a waitress at a bar
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	88
Comments	48
Date	December 24, 2010 1:06 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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