How a tall, good-looking, professional athlete blows a date by being too nice

cwalk · 2011-01-14T23:53:08+00:00

Nothing wrong with being a nice guy sometimes, but he shouldn't have let her take control of the date. He probably should have playfully negged her on being a drunk etc. There are plenty of ways to handle a classless girl like that. I think she was just looking for a hookup.

side2 · 2011-01-15T00:05:04+00:00

I have learned on my own and through seddit: Be your own man. Take charge. It is your time and they are on your time. You are not on their time.

Do not put the pussy on a pedestal. Put your own dick on the pedestal. Make them earn it.

Mouthpiece · 2011-01-15T10:12:12+00:00

She’s not attracted to this 6′8″, good-looking MMA fighter because he is too nice.

Wow. Just wow.

southamerican_man · 2011-01-14T23:43:03+00:00

Oh man this is so painful to watch/read... because I feel so reflected, whenever I had this chance with someone (I foolishly think) that's out of my league I made this mistakes over and over.

ialsolovebees · 2011-01-15T02:19:17+00:00

Tim Sylvia is ugly as sin.

peachykaren · 2011-01-15T09:41:13+00:00

eh, he's not good-looking and he's dressed sloppily.

absolutebeginners · 2011-01-15T01:12:01+00:00

Why do they think he's good looking? That dude is about 30% bodyfat. I my book you have to be at least below 20% to be considered good looking. I think he would have done a lot better if he didn't have that big belly.

moozilla · 2011-01-15T05:27:43+00:00

Read the comments before watching the video and the guy's failures were much more subtle than what the author was describing. Honestly, I think he was over-analyzing. The dude totally could have scored if he had just laid on some kino and let the alcohol guide him.

2011-01-15T07:27:16+00:00

Perhaps she was expecting him to be more in charge.

ohmynoob · 2011-01-15T16:29:44+00:00

The fact that they had a camera on them the whole time could not have helped the situation.

I am crap at this game mostly, but even I know that you shouldn't ask 'how do you see us' on a first date, especially without isolating first. With a camera crew and a potential audience of millions, this was suicide.

But we all make mistakes, I bet he has learnt from it.

throwaway703 · 2011-01-16T05:22:49+00:00

He’s totally facing her here. Very awkward.

Is it bad to be directly facing your target?

ChampRamp · 2011-01-15T02:58:39+00:00

Tim Sylvia rules

Title	How a tall, good-looking, professional athlete blows a date by being too nice
Author	insickness
Upvotes	65
Comments	26
Date	January 14, 2011 10:42 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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