Tuesday, Feb 22 @ 7PM PST - David Wygant AMA Q&A Session!! Don't miss it!

TofuTofu · 2011-02-17T00:30:47+00:00

As usual, please vote this reminder up for everyone to see it. Thanks!

liberal_elitist · 2011-02-17T06:26:25+00:00

I've read a lot of your advice that seems to center around initiating conversations and making a connection with women. Your advice on this is spot on and works like a charm. But there is one thing that I haven't heard you talk much about, and that is turning the conversation sexual or establishing yourself as a potential sexual partner right away.

Do you have any advice on this? I've noticed that women love to talk about sex, but it's not always easy to bring it up in conversation.

Obsidian743 · 2011-02-17T22:36:34+00:00

How much, in reality, does physical attractiveness matter when picking up women?.

Who has the best chance of getting laid by an HB9/HB10 (attractiveness and PUA skills from 1 - 10in parentheses):

Unattractive guy (3 or 4) with exceptional PUA skills (8 or 9)
Average looking guy (4 or 5) with good PUA skills (7 or 8)
Decent looking guy (5 or 6) with above average PUA skills (6 or 7)
Good looking guy (6 or 7) with average PUA skills (5 or 6)
Very good looking guy (7 or 8) with low PUA skills (4 or 5)
Super hot guy (9 or 10) with very low PUA skills (3 or 4)

Please elaborate on your thoughts.

Obsidian743 · 2011-02-17T22:38:54+00:00

Not all women are looking to get laid at on any given night out and sometimes no amount of game can pick them up. Do you agree with this?

If so:

What are signs to look for in order to determine if you're dealing with one?
Any key pointers on how to deal with this fact?
What percentage of women do you think fall into this category (from experience)?

If not, why do you disagree and how would you explain the women who never go home with anyone and turn down even the strongest PUAs?

Obsidian743 · 2011-02-17T22:36:59+00:00

Explain some of your biggest failures while being a MPUA and what you've learned from them.

Could you have always done something different/better? If so, give examples.

msgbonehead · 2011-02-17T01:14:41+00:00

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apocalyptic · 2011-02-17T07:10:57+00:00

What knowledge, skills, and qualities that we learn in Pick-Up are applicable and helpful in maintaining a healthy relationship?

And as a caveat to the above question:

How can we best develop these skills and qualities?

I ask this question because David Wygant aims his products to women as much as men. Now that I am much more confident socially, I have no trouble attracting women. Keeping them is the issue I now face.

Please upvote this if you would like to see this question answered.

Marcooo · 2011-02-22T15:41:51+00:00

Seeing I listened to one of your podcasts here on seddit thrice, you might just be the person to ask a question I've been thinking about for a bit:

I just returned from a 5 month trip to India (very nice DHV) and learned something about myself in interaction with the Indian girls: most girls crush on me for a while and I'm considered sweet and cute by most. However, all tend to fall for more "asshole" like guys, telling me in detail about these bad experiences.

In my home country I have a very large and diverse circle of friends, including a considerable part of (by now) totally friend zoned women. So social anxiety does not seem to be the problem.

I think I have the skills for attraction in me, but somehow I am still stuck in my current situation. I'm very bad at kino, although slowly improving. I also read a lot about being "alpha" on here lately, but that part really doesnt feel like my game, I have no intention of incorporating some of the more asshole like behavior (which it sounds like for me) in my life.

What it boils down to: *Is there a way for a cute and sweet guy to capitalize on those traits, or do I have no choice and should I move to heavy kino'ing and being "alpha"? *

2011-02-18T16:05:48+00:00

How important to you are the ego enhancement exercises in regards to meeting women. For example in the Mastery Series you make a big point of having a good wardrobe and I believe you touched on having physical fitness. How important are these activities to achieve the kind of lifestyle that attracts women into a person's life? Are they "low hanging fruit?," being things that are easier to fix that produce good results, or are they articulately essential to attracting women?

Second Question:

You have a lot of disdain for the wider "Pick-up" Community. For instance, you refuse to refer to yourself as a seduction guru and refuse to refer to what you do as Pick-up. Who, in your opinion, "gets it." What other resources, besides those done by your own company do you think do the most good?

expectingrain · 2011-02-17T13:40:28+00:00

Love your podcasts- Do you take any kind of voice or speech coaching? Your presentation is very good.

Also, are you a guerrilla marketing campaign for Whole Foods :) :) :)

takfam · 2011-02-20T06:46:15+00:00

One thing I've taken from your teachings is that you encourage men to go pursue their interests and meet women of like interest in the pursuit of those activities.

My question is: What if a man has interests that are largely male in demographic? That is to say, what if very few women are interested in what one man is interested in? Is it a game of patience at that point simply waiting for new women to enter the activity, or should one expand one's interests and explore new hobbies and activities?

2011-02-17T02:54:26+00:00

Since we're on reddit, what advice does he have for those guys who are "forever alone", guys that have never been with anyone, whether it was inherent shyness or cultural background? To use some of his terminology, how do we stop that little voice inside our head that tells us "Don't make a fool out of yourself and just keep walking/working out/ doing whatever"?

introvert_guy · 2011-02-17T04:03:28+00:00

Some of us have never been outgoing in our entire life, as introverts we like spending time alone than with others. Its pretty difficult to change anything about us in a short time. It feels very very weird for us to walk up to stranger and start a conversation. Can you tell us some little steps/exercises doing which we can talk more easily with others, and slowly get better and good enough to speak to total strangers?

StarkNYC · 2011-02-22T04:44:10+00:00

Hey thanks so much for taking the time! I've seen some of your stuff and it looks top-notch!

I understand your style is very day-game/natural/on-your-way-to-things...

What is the best way to hook conversations when doing this (short of going direct, which may not be appropriate if there are many people around)? Do you simply find girls that respond well and want to keep it going, or does plowing with girls work well?

Where is the best time and places to meet girls in your experience?

SpiderFan · 2011-02-22T23:37:05+00:00

I won't be able to make it. Please ask the following questions for me:

In the last year, have you had any 'aha' moments regarding attraction?

In the last year, what have you learned about conducting bootcamps?

What are you currently studying/reading?

jsf77 · 2011-02-23T00:51:46+00:00

I'm a senior in high school that has never been very good with girls. Recently I've been reading your blog and watching a couple of your speeches and I think I've really been able to turn around my mindset into something much more confident. The only problem is that most of your methods are good for making people like you that don't know you. What about when the people that go to parties are the same 20 or so girls that you've known for four years and see in school every day?

Beeip · 2011-02-23T02:16:36+00:00

Hi David,

Is there any merit in approaching a group of X women with <X guys?

I've heard and experienced that when guys approach women in smaller numbers than the women have, that there's no close potential, since at least one woman will become bored and convince her friends that they're bored as well. Myth? Experiences?

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-02-23T02:26:13+00:00

Question for David:

There is some criticism that many pickup systems are good for turning handsome young men into club stars. It isn't so easy if you're not in that target demographic. For example, I'm 52 years old, living in a college town and I don't really have any social circle. I've had a series of long term relationships and had some game but I seemed to have lost it recently. Like many men reading seddit, I turned to the community after some disastrous relationships made me realize I had to change my love life.

Your materials are influential here in seddit, many people have recommended your videos & etc. as the way to become more natural with pickup. But it can be hard to find potential partners, even in everyday life (day game) if you're an older bachelor in a community where almost everyone is 18-24 years old. So, do you have any suggestions for guys like me?

Obsidian743 · 2011-02-23T03:01:34+00:00

Many men struggle not with their game, but competing with the other men in these womens' lives.

When one is after a high value woman, how does one make sure they are the best, most interesting option in their life?

Specifically, how does one do this without coming off pushy, over the top, needy, or clingy? Any specific tips on how to supersede what other plans they might have with other men in their lives?

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-02-23T03:18:19+00:00

Okay, it's about 7:15 PST by my clock, is this happening? I don't know if I can hang out here tonight.

niltermini · 2011-02-23T03:21:37+00:00

7 set, 3male 4female, 3fs sitting on guys laps.. obviously leaves one female who is laughing and joking with them. There are obviously all pretty close. This is in a student center on a college campus and there is one open seat available made pretty much just for you.

Saw this today on my way to class, couldnt figure out a good approach.

How would you go about opening on this situation? What would be the game plan as for who to give attention to? guys are obviously just wanting to chill with their respective girls and respective girls are giving girl attention cause 'girl power' or love and peace or whatever. I dont see a clear winning option.

liberal_elitist · 2011-02-17T04:04:38+00:00

Great choice! He is one of the best 'synthesizers' of natural game out there.

2011-02-17T04:21:25+00:00

David,

I have a few guy friends that are shy around women, yet when I try to give them advice (such as your techniques) they don't want to hear it or avoid the subject entirely. How do I get them to open up and just at least try it out?

chumpta · 2011-02-17T06:39:53+00:00

dear lord

jackblack382 · 2011-02-17T04:48:10+00:00

No....Shit....!!!

Title	Tuesday, Feb 22 @ 7PM PST - David Wygant AMA Q&A Session!! Don't miss it!
Author	TofuTofu
Upvotes	125
Comments	31
Date	February 17, 2011 12:30 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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