Background

This guide focuses on (East) Asian women (hereafter AW), particularly foreign AW/students living in the U.S. It assumes a basic familiarity with terminology and theory, I try to avoid jargon and needless storytelling where possible. This is "original content" and was written for the first time in this submission box -- therefore, it's also a "first draft", meaning it may be full of errors and important omissions.

The elements in this guide have been extensively field tested by me, I've known other PUAs to run this with variations. May you find it useful.

Introduction

Asian women descend from cultures which have celebrated the art of seduction for thousands of years. This innate receptiveness of seduction is a double-edged sword; on one hand, seduction is an art-form, requiring precision and finesse. On the other, to attempt to use a too aggressive approach will often result in failure. Therefore, by honing your inner game, your outer game will exhibit the style and finesse required to attract and seduce beautiful women.

Observation

The most important part of developing your inner game is being observant. You need to be able to quickly identify which country / culture a random AW is from prior to the approach. Also, separating the Americans (AAW) from the foreign Asian women (FAW) is equally important.

Here are some indicators that I use.

  • Language: If you're lucky enough to hear them speaking, you can identify their language quickly. If you cannot tell the difference between Japanese, Korean, and Chinese, then you'll need to work on that. A good way to do this is to volunteer as an English tutor at your local college/university/craiglist/etc.

  • Appearances: Mainland Chinese women come in two basic types, "fashionable" and unfashionable. The unfashionable ones dress casually/conservatively. Fleece jackets, muted/dark colors, jeans/pants, sensible shoes, and 99% of the time their hair is in a simple pony-tail. The "fashionable" ones often wear weird amalgamations of clothing, short skirts, shoes with heels, and have slightly quirky hairstyles, never in a pony-tail. Heavy makeup is rare on a mainland Chinese girl. Chinese women are also among the tallest of all asians. If you see a very tall Asian girl, chances are she's Chinese. Breast sizes tend to be A/B cup, a C cup is very rare, even if she's fat. Jewelry is rare -- some love earrings.

Korean women dress more modernly and have a wide range of fashion from slutty as hell (but "clean") to ultra-orthodox conservative. They tend to wear "homogenizing" makeup, which makes their faces look flatter than they are already. Eyeshadow is not uncommon, nor is conservative lipstick. The half-moon eyes and "rounded" lips are often dead giveaways for Koreans. They have lots of "O" sounds in their language, so a natural lip position is more pursed than others. Breast sizes are biggest among Koreans (based on my experience). Chunky Korean women get the benefit bigger breasts, unlike Chinese. Jewelry here is more common, bracelets, necklaces being the norm. Earrings are rarer.

Japanese women tend to be the shortest of the lot, of course there are exceptions. They also tend to wear black quite often, and business casual, even among women is common. Miniskirts are rare on a Japanese woman, smart pants tend to be the norm. Lightly stained teeth are more common in Japanese women due to their heavy tea drinking culture, and crooked/buck teeth (especially two front teeth is considered "cute" by current standards -- this is called yaeba (sp?). Metal jewelry of any form is rare.

Since the target of this guide is for foreign Asian women, I won't discussion American AW except to say that if they are first generation Americans, then they are still bound by the same family rules and cultural influences, which I discuss below.

The point of being observant is to know which rules to apply.

Culture, Society, and Family

Family is more important to AW than American / Western women. Especially, Chinese and Koreans, but for two different reasons. Chinese are often the only-child, and consequently, all of the hopes and dreams of their elders are piled onto them. As children they have endured countless hours of study, test taking, practicing some musical instrument, usually violin or piano, and generally being oppressed. They contact their parents regularly, at least once every two weeks, but sometimes as much as once a night. Needless to say the parental influence is profound.

Koreans (and Japanese to a lesser extent) suffer a less from the pressure to succeed, they often have siblings, but they are crushed under "societal norms". Their society is very structured and behaviors outside of the norm are strongly discouraged. As a Korean, if stand out in some way, you'll get knocked down (notably this does not include fashion choices, anything goes there. Fishnet stockings and a miniskirt? No problem.). The most vicious defenders of this rigorous societal structure are the "ajuma" (sp?); a middle+ aged Korean woman, often divorced or separated from her husband -- bitter, angry, mean old ladies who have given up any hope for happiness and romance in their life. Some older Korean women (28+) are on this path: beware.

How does this apply to your game? Easy -- "Family is important to you too! You have a big family, they're all very supportive of you and you talk to your parents regularly. However, the difference is that your parents didn't force you to study all the time, and allowed you to explore your own path, etc., yet you still succeeded, etc." This elicits a really strong emotional response, and you have something they cannot have. For Chinese, always weave in stories about how you enjoy having siblings, etc., things you did together as children, the fun you had as a child (rather than stuck inside studying). You don't want to be a dick about it, just casual storytelling, but you want to elicit the response that you've been living the life she couldn't have because she was forced to study.

For Koreans, you have to make a clean dividing line between "your fun world", and "Korean Society" in order to make any progress. This means getting her out of the normal Korean social circles she is required to be a part of, and getting her to experience edgy and fun things that Koreans would never do.

For Japanese, they are typically shy/timid, and scare easily. I took one girl hiking, and she was mortified of bugs and the possibility of snakes, not a good choice. It depends on her personality, but take it easy at first. Flying kites is always a fantastic idea, and you just happen to have two (easy to fly) kites. "oops our strings got tangled...herp derp! hee hee" there's so many angles here. Note: flying kites works for almost anyone, not just Asians -- although Asians tend to have particular cultural affections for kite flying.

Finally, Food. Food is huge in Asia. It's the centerpiece for family and society, and nothing is better than eating a nice Korean dish with your Asian friend -- most Asians love Korean food, whether or not they're actually Korean themselves. However, the coup de grâce is preparing food for her. In the American game this would be considered mild "supplication", a beta move. In Asian culture, this will get you laid faster than anything. A note on alcohol: Few, if any, AW that I've met actually drink alcohol regularly or in any non-trivial amount -- so it's generally not an option unless again, they specifically enjoy that.

Continued in Part 2... Edit: formatting