Can you walk me through an example of a daygame approach?

2nd_class_citizen · 2011-03-23T15:45:05+00:00

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philosarapter · 2011-03-23T18:33:34+00:00

Yeah I would toss out the contents of the original OP. All of that seems so forced and doesn't actually develop any type of true interaction.

Avoid "Hey how are you" or other similar ["polite"] questions.
Make your questions something she can answer with personal life experience. So instead of say "why don't people do this..." make it more like "have you ever..."
Don't ask her qualifying questions, she should be doing the qualifying because she wants to look good in your eyes, not because she has to answer a question. This is why you disqualify her.

Open with an observation: (This is situational dependent, so you have to train yourself to pick out conversation topics in all environments.) So lets say a grocery store:

[casually have your cart next to hers as you are looking at the cereals, look over to your right/left without turning your body towards her...]

Me: "You ever notice all the GOOD cereals are marketed towards kids? Like how come a grown adult can't enjoy a bowl of Trix without being looked at like he's a weirdo?"

Her: "haha" or "I know right?! [IOI]"

Me: "Let me guess, you are more of a Special K type of girl?"

Her: "no, I eat Honey Bunches of Oats" [or whatever]

Me: "What are you like 50 years old? Haha. Come on, what was your favorite cereal as a kid? Lets talk REAL cereals, I mean the sugary awesomeness you'd plow through while watching cartoons on a saturday morning?"

Her: "Haha, ok.. Lucky Charms"

Me: "Mine too! That poor leprechaun was always on the run from kids who wanted to kidnap him and beat him up for his gold and we sided with those hooligan burglars because apparently leprechauns aren't people."

Blah blah blah evolve this conversation for about 3-5 minutes, playing off her body language. If she doesn't seem like she wants to be a part of this conversation, then eject. but if she is into it and is actively engaged then you can transition into:

Me: "Hey, so I feel weird asking this, but I am supposed to cook for my parents because my mom isn't feeling well, but I am a TERRIBLE cook, do you think you could help me put a meal together? I have an idea of what I want but I want it to come out half-way decent."

[transition into instant date where she can help you shop]

Then number close:

Me: "Hey, I better get going before my ice cream melts, but I'd love to continue this conversation sometime, perhaps we can even go out for breakfast at night, I hear its the new rage these days. Write down your phone number here on my shopping list. But make sure you put it below ice cream. Gotta prioritize :)"

Then you can even text her later saying something smart-ass like "I had this number on my list of things to pick up at the grocery store, I was just calling to see if you had one [cute / short] blonde girl in stock?"

Sed5 · 2011-03-23T08:11:34+00:00

Man, I don't know. I'm no pro at all, but I seem to be able to carry on conversations with pretty ladies on the regular. Just...relax. Don't try and think of everything you ever read on pickup. Pay attention to your state, pay attention to her state, just try and think of things that you find funny.

The only trick I use whenever I have AA or feel nervous opening a set of more than two HBs is thinking about if they were my guy friends. What crazy/chill/funny/ridiculous thing would I say if they were not possessed of awesome sexual energy and flirtatious hotness? If they were just guy friends or new dudes I was meeting?

That always works for me to get my head out of my way. Also, I'm pretty good with corny jokes. I've got a lot of them.

2011-03-23T13:57:36+00:00

I don't really like that opener, because that is more something that you to someone you are passing in a hallway. You should be more personal with them if you are expecting a conversation. "I just saw you from across the room and wanted to come meet you, I'm sed." Would be much better. If you don't want to go direct then say something situational, but going indirect you aren't really "fooling" anyone especially in the daytime so it is just easier to direct, IMO.

I wouldn't go from opener to story. At nighttime when people are more social it won't seem weird, in the daytime it will. You can get away with the typically more "boring" topics in the daytime. "What are you up to today?" is something that I say in every approach, because it also provides you will logistical info(whether she is in a hurry, just shopping, whatever). I generally try to build my conversations off the things that she will say. If we have been talking for a couple minutes and then the convo hits a lul then I will put out something like the routine that you mentioned.

For magic bullets, do as they suggest and take it one step at a time. Open, then after you do that transition. After you can do that proficiently work on attraction and so on.

Hope this helps.

AFCAFC · 2011-03-23T16:16:22+00:00

I'll chip as my last good day game approach has led to a few dates.

Go direct. Something like "I wanted to say hi because I think you are cute". You are making your intentions known right away and if she hooks, then you just shoot the shit about whatever, you don't need to "open, transition, DHV" etc. If she was receptive to the direct opener it's on.
So go direct, then I usually just ask "so what are you up today/mall/whatever" and then naturally follow that conversation thread. After a bit of banter go for the #close.

daygamer · 2011-03-23T10:21:21+00:00

It depends on context. Daygame basically means any cold approach which doesn't happen at a bar / club / party. This could be in a shop, on the bus walking down the street. I generally open girls as they are walking down the street, and I go direct on them.

ehbeeseedee · 2011-03-23T11:50:35+00:00

Be direct with something that displays attraction from the get-go.

As for Magic Bullets, practise practise practise.

unsexyMF · 2011-03-23T16:00:20+00:00

Find some stuff by Paul Janka. Basically, he'll approach a girl on the street with something situational, make a few comments, get her phone number, and be gone in 60 seconds. Forget about Magic Bullets - that book makes it too complicated. Approaching girls is mostly a numbers game, so get your numbers in.

Nexism · 2011-03-24T08:02:55+00:00

Opener is no good, you need either direct (You're cute, elaborate) or indirect (need an opinion, you look like you would know what you're talking about sort of thing).

Then try to turn her 180 degrees so she loses track of where she was going, build rapport and comfort quickly, close very quickly.

Title	Can you walk me through an example of a daygame approach?
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Date	March 23, 2011 7:30 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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