Hey seddit, let's get to know each other!

Pomeshnue · 2011-05-09T21:13:31+00:00

Once anti-social, I have begun to broaden my horizons and socialize. My goal once I started reading seddit was to land myself a gf, and have finally succeeded as of a couple days ago. I am applying to medical schools in a month, and when I'm done I want to be a transplant surgeon. I studied kinesiology in college, and I love to stay in shape and build my body up. I also love playing video games in my free time when I'm not studying.

philosarapter · 2011-05-09T16:20:14+00:00

I'm your typical meathead+nerd hybrid. I work in software engineering during the day and train mixed martials arts at night. (I'm hoping to do some prize fighting in the future). I enjoy philosophizing, doing drugs, working out, having sex, playing video games (mmo's specifically).

My goal is to make a nice six figure salary and end up in a polyamourous relationship with 2+ females to travel the world with and indulge in the sweetest raves known to man. While working on developing the first true AI.

TofuTofu · 2011-05-09T17:21:16+00:00

TofuTofu here. I've pretty much mastered "pickup" in the sense that I can have easy success with women. However I am a social dynamics junkie and want to learn as much as humanly possible. I am focused more on furthering the collective knowledge of social dynamics than anything and I hope to keep adding original contributions (like the PPP).

In life, I am focused mostly on wealth building now, which is why I'm about to start my second startup company. We'll see what happens :)

I enjoy showing other guys the ropes. I preach that you should be a value giver and I try to epitomize what that actually means. That's why I am such an active contributor on seddit.

<3 you guys

Libido · 2011-05-09T16:35:29+00:00

Lol, fuck it.

I'm Libido, I run the lair for Orlando and have spoken at conventions and taught hundreds of guys pick up. Kind of past the fulcrum point personally and it's reflexive now. I jump on here sometimes to see if anything interesting comes up, mostly ghost reading though as I don't have time to read all of the material locally so this just becomes an extension of my reddit addiction.

I do sales generally, currently medical sales and I am a partner in a modeling firm. Write articles for magazines and coach in the evenings.

My typical day involves work/workout/club or something very similar. Clubs are no longer a big deal to me though, and I look forward to nights staying in with my boys far more then nights going out lately.

I think this is the reddit my boy Ghosebag or whatever helped start, but really not sure if that's a different one or if he goes by a different sn here.

Learning seduction has changed my life, although it is no longer a central focus of it.

Libido

intjpua · 2011-05-09T23:59:03+00:00

I'm a cofounder in a tech startup that's been around for a few years. It's comfortably profitable and pays me a decent and reliable salary. I'm not wealthy, but I do have a very high level of freedom. I also have a very high level of security, even in down economic conditions.

I use that freedom to travel pretty much constantly, staying in one city for a month or two or three, and then moving to another, rarely repeating, though I do have a couple of favorite cities that I visit once or twice a year.

Typical day is hard to pin down since it depends on where I am, but right now it looks like this: wake around noon, tea and breakfast and reddit for an hour or two, working for a couple of hours, roaming my neighborhood with the dog several times a day, an hour or two on my bike a few times a week, hanging with friends at home, at parties, or at a bar two or three nights a week. In bed around 3 or 4. Probably play some games (MMO, board games, poker) and read some books and watch some movies at various times.

I consider myself successful in life, though there's always room for improvement. Honestly, I'm kinda smug at this point, because things have turned out really good in my life, and I meet so many people in my travels who are still struggling. I'm still not as social as I'd like to be, but on nearly all other counts, I have no complaints. It took me a decade or so to figure shit out, but I've mostly got the hang of living well these days.

As for goals:

Keep doing what I'm doing, only moreso (except reddit and computer games; I want to do less of those). I usually have a FWB situation going wherever I happen to be living, and I sometimes find a girl worth doing the girlfriend thing with. I'm trying to get more productive in my work life (working smarter, not harder), so the company growth speeds up some.

I'd like to get more community focused in my day-to-day life as well...more volunteering, more learning from others in person. There's a kind of wisdom that comes from that, which I've come to learn can't be learned from reading and studying.

I've long ago recognized that money and girls are not the only things I need to be content. I need some grownups in my life, some men I can trashtalk with, some guys to play poker with, great movies and books, and some time in the woods with my dog. I'd also like to start a new band, though travelling so much makes that difficult.

Dorman010 · 2011-05-09T14:31:52+00:00

Israeli here, moved to the Netherlands nearly nine years ago, now an exchange student in Belgium. Doing my internship in a huge American corporation, Corporate Affairs department (means I am very much concerned with its reputation and stuff). My day is very interesting, even though I'm in the office all day long, though these hours (I usually start on 08:30 and end on roughly 17:30) can be quite a bitch. I want to finish this year and get my Bachelor's Degree in the Netherlands next year.

And have fun doing it, of course. ;)

SoBoredAtWork · 2011-05-09T14:38:54+00:00

I'll bite.

I'm a web & graphic designer at a medium sized manufacturing company. Into computers, so have a few nerdy tendencies, but you wouldn't know by looking at or talking to me. I dress well, have a ton of friends (none of whom are nerdy) and usually have a girl that I'm seeing or working on.

Not trying to brag or sound douchey, but I sort of have too many friends. I'm outgoing and have friends in several different groups of people. It's tough to keep in touch with all of them, so I tend to lose friends as new ones come in. It's just impossible to see everyone on a regular basis.

The friends that I have are amazing and I try to be a good one to them. I keep in touch regularly, even if I don't see them. And generally, I'll do anything for them if they need help / a favor. Also, none of them are into seduction, but a few are okay at picking up girls. Most of them suck at it. Half are in a relationship.

I've been done w/ school for 4-5 years (I'm 28 yrs old), single, go out to the bars every weekend. Usually I'm out to hang w/ friends and don't focus on pickup, but I did this weekend and it went great. Most of the time, I get too drunk and have no idea what happened w/ the cute girl I was talking to - usually get drunk and blow it.

Anyway, my typical day is: work 9-5:30 (my job kind of blows and pay sucks, so I spend most of my time emailing friends and browsing reddit), gym 3-4 days a week, one night to watch Lost (again) w/ my family, one night to get out for drinks (usually w/ a girl), always go out Saturdays into Hoboken, NYC or local bars (I'm in Northern NJ), Fridays I either go out, stay in, or take a girl out, depending on how I feel.

This is getting too long, so I'm out. Definitely up to answer any questions (I'm at work, so I'm really, really bored).

Whisper · 2011-05-09T23:45:49+00:00

Defense sector software engineer, changing to the private sector right now 'cause I'm sick of the DoD's bullshit. I'm top talent, and tech recruiters fall all over me in the way that I'd like to get women to.

I like to work out, love my career (not just for the loads of money I make), enjoy cooking and am quite the armchair psychologist. I don't consider myself a nerd, but I get on famously with them, and running tabletop RPGs is a bit of a guilty pleasure for me.

I'm here because the one drawback of being an engineer is that you just don't run into a lot of women in your everyday life, so if you don't start making an effort, well, you don't have a lot of options. I've been using multiple FWBs for sex for years, and I'm a bit sick of that... wanna get some actual sparks flying.

HeikkiKovalainen · 2011-05-09T14:52:14+00:00

I'm a student, studying a Bachelor of Science majoring in Physics and a Bachelor of Mechanical and Aeronautical Engineering. I'm considering dropping the Physics because despite it being one of my passions, the facilities at my new University sucks (transferred last semester).

I badly want to have something I've contributed to get published before I drop it, just so I have something a little quantitative to look back on and almost got there last year. Last year I got to use a multi-million dollar beamline to refine the quality of molecular sieves, but my research really wasn't anywhere near publishable (though it was my first year of Physics) so I hope to get on a research team this year some time.

I wouldn't mind doing Physics as a career but the pay is crap, and I do want a high pay rate.

Engineering on the other hand is cool, but the only two things I am going to get into is designing formula one cars or working for NASA/European Space Union. If I go with the former I think I'd be a bit depressed that I could never drive the cars (as my unaffordable dream is to drive for a living) but if I go with the latter, it'd be less pay but at least I could work towards being an astronaut.

I kind of hate how the educated people get to design cool things, formula one cars, jet fighters, but then the people that just play with the toys all their lives get to use them haha. So as astronauts are the educated ones I could actually end up there.

However... I'm in the process of learning some programming languages so I can write websites in my free time. I thought of a website idea I think I could make a lot of money out of, but it's such a large build it'll take me forever. However as I'm in the planning stages, I absolutely LOVE IT. I love designing crap like this and it really made me consider starting my own business one day.

Other goals include learning the piano to a level where you get those awesome letters after your name; learning French, German, Latin, Finnish and Swedish; and having a daughter.

TurnMySwagOn · 2011-05-09T15:18:40+00:00

I'm a 27/f. I live in GA, am currently in school for Graphic Design, and have a 5 yr old son. Typical day: Take my son to pre-k, come home, do an hour and a half workout, shower/dress etc, and get on reddit or play wow... haha... and then go to class. Pick up my son, come home and cook dinner for my family, play games etc with my son. Go to bed. Rinse and repeat... except on the nights I go see my "friend" or the dude I'm dating, whatever it is. Everything is simple in my life except that part. But that's another story :P Anyway. I have a year and half left of school, and once I am done there are about 9 places throughout the country I want to put my portfolio/resume out to and wherever I get the best offer, that's where I'm headed. My life is pretty easy, stress free for the most part.

2011-05-09T15:59:56+00:00

Nice change of pace :)

I'm a current student working through nursing pre-reqs. For my age, I'm a little behind the peer curve since I did a stint in the Army and started school later than my friends. Surprisingly, though, I'm already moving forward faster than some of them and they have been in school for 3 years longer than me. Current goals include learning the local second language, getting back to my preferred size and strength levels (coming off motorcycle accident), and getting all my debt cleared in 2 years max time.

Typical day for me involves an early wake up, the gym, work, then hanging out with some friends or my 2 dogs. Not a guy who enjoys bars or the usual pickup places so I tend to find obscure events and different activities to occupy myself. Coming off 3 years isolated from most of my friends, and then into a 2 year failed relationship, so my social network isn't what it could have been. Because of that, and how I picky I am about the quality of friends I keep, I tend to go solo most of the time. My friends have different tastes than I so I'm always making new friends that enjoy the things I do.

I'm fairly successful for my age. Bought a house, have two vehicles with one nearly paid off, and I have a life plan that is moving along nicely. Do I make a lot of money? Not really, but I'm very efficient with what I do. In 3-4 years, once I graduate the RN program I'll have no bills but my house payment and making twice as much as I do now. Can't wait.

wild-man · 2011-05-09T22:07:44+00:00

hello seddit, I'm a wildlife biologist and I love what I do. currently my goals are more career oriented (develop my skills, demonstrate proficiency, advance, repeat) and I am working toward self improvement in a variety of ways including social dynamics. My day was average and the week is on the upswing. I am successful by my definition, and I will continue to be successful because anything less is unacceptable.

thank you for asking, and I hope to learn about the rest of seddit as well.

heresmokethis · 2011-05-10T00:14:03+00:00

Heresmokethis here. Some days I see the Matrix. Some days it feels like the world is laughing at me. Goals for the future: tighten up my inner game. Fix my inner life and my outer life will follow.

oldDudePua · 2011-05-10T00:44:10+00:00

Hello all. Like many people in the community I read The Game a few years ago and got fascinated. But my situation seems to be a little different than most of you. I am a little older, run a tech start up in California and I am married. My wife and I have a bit of an open relationship (we have carefully defined exactly what are cool with and not cool with). We go out and wing for each other, which is usually a complete blast. She is direct and a complete "natural". I always had hit or miss success but since learning to be a pua have conquered my sticking points and generally do alright. Between the two of us we generally are able to close anyone we want about 60-70% of the time. Glad to meet everyone.

shomustgon · 2011-05-10T03:28:37+00:00

27 y/o promoter. I spend so much time working events and producing them that it's hard to take advantage of the social opportunities. Always something to do. Focused on wealth building, started my own company, need to set solid attainable goals... Very interested in social dynamics/ circle building, I study it to make my events better. I know what I want but I fight anxiety in general not just when it comes to women. It sucks to be always worried about something but it makes me stand out over my competition because I actually care. Sometimes too much. learning every day.

Cogwork · 2011-05-10T14:19:14+00:00

I'm in Augusta, GA. I'm 27 and in the marketing department for one of the media outlets in town. I'm a bit of a geek, and I have a lot of hobbies. I brew my own beer, crack whips, draw, play video games, work out (crossfit) I'm sure there's a few more things but I'm drawing a blank.

I'm in a career I never imagined having so I'm happy with that, and I'm currently working on advancing it further now. I like to set up little pet projects for the weekend, like this fall I'm going to build an Arbor and see if I can get my great grandfather's vineyard started back up so I can start brewing some home made wine with the wild grapes.

It's hard to have a typical day in marketing. This week I have to go judge a wing cook-off that we're sponsoring. My job is so hard sometimes :p

Title	Hey seddit, let's get to know each other!
Author	Sed5
Upvotes	13
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Date	May 9, 2011 1:58 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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