Hey seddit,

I've been thinking quite a bit about these issues. And I can't seem to resolve them in my mind. Maybe a bit of seddit logic can put me at ease. Or at-least bring up these issues in the forefront of every guy who is practicing seduction.

While I agree alcohol gives courage to both sexes, I feel a bit apprehensive about it! I don't want to take advantage of any girl under the influence. I mean one or two drinks is hardly 'influenced' but say 5 or 6 or more beers etc. It's hard to gauge the tolerances of people so, it makes the issue even more complex. If a girl is completely wasted and comes onto you, what would you do? Given that I'm a bit future-orientated and young, the last thing I want to do is commit rape. As it is easy for a woman to simply wash her hands of responsibility when something like this occurs.

The next issue is LMR. While I understand that most women do this as an anti-slut shield. Being told 'no' or 'I don't want to' sets off some warnings in my head. I feel that I shouldn't be doing something that isn't consensual in the first place and I feel like I might be raping her if I go through with it. It is again easy for women to wash their hands completely and accuse you of rape.

So, any insights on this? Can you guys help me square away these issues (they haven't happened yet, but at the pace I'm going at, I do see LMR happening in a month or so) before anything happens?

Edit: If it helps at all, I'm required to have/maintain a top secret clearance in my line of work. Any accusation or otherwise is damaging to my career! I have worked really closely with the military involving things that are VERY sensitive in nature (think military tech and hardware). I'm not allowed to reveal anything I do or work on, which is useful because shittests solve themselves. As for the replies that say I should 'man up', well it doesn't help. I'm not being beta or DLV, I'm simply looking out for myself. I'd rather keep my well paying job which I FUCKING love.