This will be my second post to seddit, I really enjoyed the reactions and discussions that came out of my first one, which was focused on routines. So I thought I'll post a little on, what I think, the key points of inner game should be.

Now, inner game as I see it is ABSOLUTE confidence in your actions, and yourself. And by yourself I don't mean your "prepared" self, your true self. This "you" should be there constantly, at call. In other words, you see when you pick up a console controller or sit on your PC, your body/hands automatically fall into place? That should be the natural state you fall into every time your in a interaction. GIRL OR BOY.

That is key. You shouldn't change yourself when your around girls, sure I'm not saying go around farting and burping, but just be you. It doesn't matter who "you" are, if your passionate, confident and fun, whatever you talk about will be interesting. If you want to talk about video games, go for it. I do it all the time, I talk about call of duty, battlefield, anything I'm playing at the time to girls. Obviously, its not something i ramble on about. But especially in mixed sets, it's sooo useful in winning over the guys. And remember, he who leads the men...

When you think about being a alpha male, what do you think? Someone who is big, macho etc, or someone who is very confident in themselves? I cannot state enough how important it is to not give a damn about what girls think of you initially. Sure they might go "haha your such a loser, you like whatever!", isn't that just a massive shit test? Seeing how well you keep yourself up? I like to think "no I don't like whatever, I FUCKING LOVE IT."

That's very important also, having a phrase or action that puts you in the right state. Every night/day before I go out, I do all my favourite things, listen to some house music, pretend I can body pop, makes me happy, excited and ready. Then I just say "fuck it, let's do this!!" and boom. I'm in the state. Ready.

This one, it's a weird one. Guys. No more daily fapping. No more. Once a week. Max. Or a pre sex fap, I won't blame you. But seriously, since I've scheduled my faps to once a week, your sex drive rockets. No more shall you "consider" kino escalation, it will happen naturally. Your body wants it, you will do it unconsciously. You will just naturally become sexual.

Now, typing this and reading it, it's a little unorganised. But, most Important thing is just BE what you are ARE. tell girls what your thinking, if your sitting there and thinking "I wanna kiss her" fucking tell her, she's probably thinking what you taste like as well. If you wanna stand up and run away to the other side of the club, fucking do it. This is your life. Your in control. Everyone else is just enjoying your reality.

Look forward to feed back! Happy November.

Edit: oh and remember guys, you might think that you are socially awkward or whatever, but girls are just the same. They are way more scared of awkward interactions and "what if" this happens or what of that happens than we will ever be.