The proper mindset when approaching.

puppy22 · 2012-07-16T14:25:54+00:00

I think you a few words there.

Poueff · 2012-07-16T15:17:37+00:00

Holy shit this is sooo true. Experienced it last saturday. Two set with a mate, and he was completely frozen, and the friend of my target looked bored (which is part of why I didn't manage to isolate) but shit did I get a ton of IOIs

011191 · 2012-07-16T14:12:24+00:00

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Xeonit · 2012-07-16T17:20:27+00:00

Im noticing this too. Many girls just wish that a guy will approach them, taking the "boredom" of the routines away from their lifes. We all like when someone start a good conversation with us, because we humans are "Social Animals". Nobody wants to take a bus to college/gym/etc and stay silent all the time during the trip. You can make a person happier with just a smile, imagine what you can make by sharing some of your time with them.

Beast66 · 2012-07-16T16:15:13+00:00

Approaching SUCKS and everyone knows it. But does it suck bad enough that you're gonna pass up banging a hot girl because of it? No. For those who have trouble approaching, this mindset is absolutely excellent because as a Pua you're going to be better than probably any guy she's ever met.

ilovemodok · 2012-07-16T16:47:35+00:00

Any tips on some good topics to use when approaching. I always choke not being able to think of anything.

Anything other than "Hi" or "hello"? What would you say after that for example?

magicroot75 · 2012-07-17T02:06:16+00:00

In my defense. I have approached probably 150 girls, and gotten one crappy date out of it. I have approached in malls, the beach, clubs, bars, restaurants, parking lots, fairs, colleges, and just about everywhere else. All I have to show for it is one shitty date that was a waste of my time, a few flakey numbers, and a few dances/grinds with random girls. I dress well, I come off forward, I even kino. What gives?

Julianlopez420 · 2012-07-16T17:51:46+00:00

as Creepy and Rapey as it sounds, I bow to your goofy ass.

YouWontForgetMe89 · 2012-07-16T18:28:35+00:00

Oh god how unfair life, that all I can give you for that wonderful advice is an upvote.

oderint_dum_metuant · 2012-07-16T18:51:19+00:00

I like this mentality " I sure hope she knows what to talk about because I sure don't ". It pushes you in the right direction by helping you let go of the belief that its all on YOU to make the interaction interesting.

2nd_class_citizen · 2012-07-17T03:16:44+00:00

I mostly agree with what you said, except for this part:

I do get rejections, but I know its not my fault. That girl either is not attracted to me for reasons I can't change, or she's got commitments.

One should never dwell on a rejection but always thinking about how you could improve yourself (mentally, physically) can certainly improve your chances with the next girl you approach. If you get rejected, the girl either has commitments or is not attracted to what you've presented to her. What you present to her is something that should be improving all the time.

theoctopuss · 2012-07-17T14:25:51+00:00

"oh, i think fucking that girl would be fun. i'm going to go see if she wants to fuck me."

somerandomgirl24 · 2012-07-16T17:27:30+00:00

Creepy and rapey.

Title	The proper mindset when approaching.
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Upvotes	133
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Date	July 16, 2012 8:36 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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