Here is the video of Russian girl who decided to check how guys accept rejection. Unfortunately, too many guys don't know how to accept the failure graciously.

big_reddit-squid · 2012-09-18T14:38:58+00:00

There are many lessons to be learned from this video gentleman. Very rarely do we see the other side of what it's like to be approached all the time due to your looks and men's desire to stab you repeatedly.

Unfortunately it's true, we suck at taking rejection. That's because society hasn't really given us any guidance into coping with rejection. Usually we just let all that emotion pent up inside where it can fester quietly as a mental illness. It's unhealthy, unproductive, and unbecoming of men. I simply cringed when guys call this woman a bitch simply because she wanted to get on with her fucking day.

What the guys should have done was when it was apparent she wasn't interested, was to just to smile and wish the madame a good day. Simple as that.

Good God if this is how women are treated after they reject guys then I don't blame them for developing strong bitch shields.

Rail606 · 2012-09-18T13:48:55+00:00

Favorite line "Maybe we could go somewhere together sometime."

oliver_tate · 2012-09-18T14:13:03+00:00

Why are so many guys approaching her? She's fit but guys are hitting on her literally non-stop.

caulking · 2012-09-18T16:07:11+00:00

wtf I wish girls who rejected me would all be as polite as she is.

productionx · 2012-09-18T15:40:56+00:00

Noting that she gives absolutely no IoIs, except to the person with dogs. Bitches love dogs.

2012-09-18T19:49:54+00:00

That is my issue with the widely help principle of Assume Attraction, it makes a lot of guys blind and deaf.

To me generating attraction is like playing tennis, throw a soft ball, see is she plays back, if she doesn't.... she doesn't, there could be a thousand of reasons from contextual (maybe she just got tired of being hit on a few dozen times too many) maybe it's content (you said the wrong thing, the same line that her abusive ex-boyfriend used to say), or she might think that you are ugly. It doesn't matter, move on.

I start with eye contact, casually, and see if she plays and then escalate from there, at times it goes all the way to a ONS, at times.... she was looking at the outfit of the girl behind me ;-(

ihavespellingproblem · 2012-09-18T16:30:27+00:00

Uhm.. Is it normal? Is it something a pretty girl gets on a daily basis? I mean I'm Russian, I know we're direct and blunt, myself included, but this video is really disturbing. Poor girl.

kifn2 · 2012-09-18T16:58:18+00:00

Not to be too contradictory here, but here are my observations:

The first two guys were NOT rude. As a matter of fact she was giving the guy at the table some minor IOI's: eye contact, smiling, introducing herself with a handshake. They may have seemed a little put off by the rejection, but that's their problem. It wasn't rude.

Of course, most of the other guys were quite clearly rude and some of them were bordering on harassing. So where is that dividing line between moving past a shit test and just moving on? I think it boils down to fundamentals.

Don't escalate unless you get clear IOI's. Personally, I will attempt kino if I get 3 IOI's, e.g. smiling, hair touching, compliment.

The openers set the mood. The bus guy seemed better because he was facing the same direction as her in a nonthreatening posture. The table guy was extremely direct and escalated too quickly. Neither one of them engaged her, though. "Are you waiting for the 603, bus too?" What did he expect her to say?

I really hope that people don't watch this and think, "Well, she'll probably reject me and I don't want to come off as rude so I just won't approach."

Snake0987654321 · 2012-09-19T00:07:34+00:00

At the same time though, she's being really rude, like "I don't wanna tell you my name I'm freaking not going to talk to you". These guys aren't doing anything inappropriate or unusual

Title	Here is the video of Russian girl who decided to check how guys accept rejection. Unfortunately, too many guys don't know how to accept the failure graciously.
Author	SpicyRussia
Upvotes	36
Comments	28
Date	September 18, 2012 12:15 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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