Your response to girls that are cold and uninterested?

Murmaider · 2012-12-28T18:45:53+00:00

I eject, no reason why I should waste my time. If I am in a situation were the selection is extremely limited, then I'll roll out a neghit.

nebbish · 2012-12-28T18:15:10+00:00

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Ru5k0 · 2012-12-28T19:48:35+00:00

I will try to talk to her for about a minute more. sometimes its really hard if a girl is being short because she is shy or because she is disinterested.

I had a date like 2 months ago, and the girl acted like that the entire date. I almost lost my temper and took her home and cut it early. Like why come out if you are going to give short disinterested responses?

i hung in there because i took her to somewhere i wanted to be.

Got back to her place. Decided I was never going to hit her up again, so i might as well try and get invited in.

next thing you know, we are having sex.

and she was all about after. The entire date, she acted like a disinterested girl at a bar. But i guess just was shy.

basically point of the story, is i can never tell if girls like you are rejecting me or are being shy.

joculator · 2012-12-28T19:03:00+00:00

I would respect your wish not to be bothered.

Edgar_Allan_Rich · 2012-12-28T19:21:17+00:00

I play it cool and just chill until something more interesting comes along or until she leaves. Yes, that's correct, I would just just chill next to you until something happens. Fuck it. If I need a fresh drink or a better girl comes by I'll just walk off without saying a word. I don't like to encourage anyone to be rude, and accepting rejection by saying "okay, have a good night" tells her that it's okay to be an awkward bitch. If a girl wants to be a cold bitch she should tell me to fuck off to my face. If a girl doesn't want to be part of society she can go to her room and play webcam all night as far as I'm concerned.

bluehat9 · 2012-12-28T18:14:57+00:00

Does a guy just say "You don't seem very impressed" right off the bat or is this somewhat into him trying to initiate conversation and you not reciprocating?

Personally, if a girl I try to talk to just acts totally uninterested, I will probably just walk away. There are billions of people out there, and a good portion of them simply aren't interested in new relationships for a multitude of reasons. Theres nothing wrong with this.

At the same time, lots of girls act uninterested up until the point that they become interested, so you need to take this into account. Since we have the whole dynamic of guys being the chaser and girls being the chased, guys have learned to be persistent and not give up too easily, so it's only natural that some guys keep pushing.

If you really don't want to be bothered, maybe try, "Hey, listen, I appreciate what you're trying to do here, but I'm just trying to have a low key night (with my friend here/by myself). Thanks"

Turquill · 2012-12-28T19:59:10+00:00

If a girl is not reciprocating interest I will move on and find another one.

MatsuHiga · 2012-12-28T21:39:00+00:00

guy comes up, tries to initiate conversation and I just ignore and don't make eye contact until they start talking to me.

how do you initiate conversation before starting talking to someone?

2012-12-28T18:24:21+00:00

I don't approach a girl unless she shows some sign of interest. If I make a mistake and she seems uninterested when I approach and we start talking, I will abruptly end the conversation and walk away. I think for some girls it's just them playing hard to get, but ain't nobody got time for that!

2012-12-28T20:26:01+00:00

look for someone else

2012-12-28T19:00:44+00:00

Move on.

imacarpet · 2012-12-28T22:40:29+00:00

As a guy who is just out to have a good night, have fun and meet interesting fun people, there's no reason for me to stick around.

If a girl wants to be left alone, there's no reason why a guy shouldn't want to respect that.

timHcoffee8 · 2012-12-28T19:18:27+00:00

You must get hit on a lot for this to be an issue. I bet you're hot. And to answer your question I would probably attempt to continue the conversation, knowing that it will piss you off since you were so rude to me. When that gets boring however,yes, I would lose interest and leave you alone.

2012-12-28T19:56:01+00:00

If a girl is not keeping eye contact or generally acting aloof to the conversation I walk away. I don't waste time on girls that play hard to get or are disrespecting me in any way but will usually stick around for a short time if I suspect they just have bitch shield up to weed out lower value males. Some guys are creepy and don't take hints so just say you're not interested.

2012-12-28T20:26:00+00:00

I keep at it, I'm going to make you blow me out if you just ignore me, just for my own amusement. It becomes a game.

Most dudes would probably just walk away.

My favorite elegant girl dismissal is "nice to meet you". It indicates an end to the conversation but does so both politely and without any ambiguity. I won't keep at a girl when she says something like this.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-12-28T22:21:23+00:00

When and where do you act like like this? If you're doing this out in a public place like a bar or club, where people usually meet and interact with strangers, then you should probably not go to those places with the expectation of being left alone.

quickthrow3321 · 2012-12-29T03:22:55+00:00

typical guy question on seddit: how do i get the girl

= i don't have a lot of success in dating. need help get at least one girl.

typical girl question on seddit: how do i reject the guy

= i have that much success in dating, i need to know how to reject guys quicker.

...

well fuck this world and fuck your luxury problems.

Title	Your response to girls that are cold and uninterested?
Author	jw233
Upvotes	9
Comments	32
Date	December 28, 2012 6:09 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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