How is my texting game? Be as critical as you want.

AveofSpades · 2013-03-20T04:15:07+00:00

Cool. Escalate. She wants the D. Give it to her and stop wasting time.

tombey12 · 2013-03-20T04:25:16+00:00

Definitely in the right direction. After she texts you tomorrow on time, it would be a great way lead to a date in the next couple of days. Tell her since you're impressed that she can be punctual enough, you'll reward her with a date on ___ around ___ o'clock. (something along those lines)

Captain_French · 2013-03-20T04:47:08+00:00

I think your game is good because it seemed to work but for me, you waste a lot of time texting.

I'm pretty sure you had a shot to meet her in person on the 19th instead of texting on the 19th, and then on the 20th to set a date for later.

You could close sooner.

2013-03-20T04:11:28+00:00

You do really well when you reply! Short and witty is the best with a girl who likes you already. I would just say, if she texts you.. Don't wait a whole day to reply. I would have replied that night, gotten her to call you then had a deep conversation... But I'm a romantic :) then again if its just a girl I want to get into, then witty replies till I see her again!

dem0nhunter · 2013-03-20T07:28:15+00:00

Quite good. She's jumping through every hoop you offer to her. She seemsto be really into you. Now should come the part that seperates you from her girlfriends. Gotta take it to the next level now.

Roaaarr · 2013-03-20T10:32:16+00:00

My 2 cents:

March 17

Me (9:59pm): So imma be stuck at work tomorrow, can i count on you to text me atleastttt once?

Too needy. I would have said something along the line: " imma be stuck at work tomorrow, so text me to entertain me. Thanks."

March 18

You waited waaaay too long. I would have answered after:

Her (10:45pm): DON'T MAKE ME CONTINUE WRITING IN ALL CAPS.

... with: "you're cute but have to be punished anyway. Pay me a drink tomorrow night."

... or after:

Her (10:46pm): I will text you all night if it calls for it.

... with: "yeah, do that, and then come and give me a massage, my body calls for it".

March 19

This day is all wrong imho. You waited too much, and that's true you gained control of the interaction, but you don't do anything with it. You just re-do what you did 2 days before, ie: "please text me".

So:

don't be needy, just say what you want
reframe: initiate sex talk
get her to meet you

1vibe · 2013-03-20T07:28:03+00:00

Gawd stop texting and touch the girl she's crazy about you!

kingcal · 2013-03-20T11:42:24+00:00

What exactly is the end game here? This, to me, falls into the pointless "just friends" texting that doesn't go anywhere romantically. If all you want is to be friends with the girl, you're doing fine. Otherwise shit like texting a girl "hey" is retarded. You don't have to say hello to her. Instead of "text me tomorrow at 3" I would've set up a date for then.

2013-03-21T03:15:35+00:00

Good in general, but two big mistakes I see

1 if she sends 4 texts in all caps don't ignore her, capitalize on that opportunity. You can still make your point to have control without waiting a day

2 she asked you an open ended question of how she can make something up to you, especially when you hold the frame.. Fucking do something about it! 100 answers better than text me tomorrow come to mind.

Don't fret on past mistakes, just push for an face to face interaction asap

Brawny_Ginger · 2013-03-20T12:06:23+00:00

She is so down, all you had to do was not screw it up. Congrats, you didn't, she still wants you. Go for it.

deschen · 2013-03-20T16:53:01+00:00

Hey if it works for you and the vibe/feeling is there then by all means go ahead. BUT if she stops replying for any reason don't start text bombing her with a 1 sided conversation. edit:: stop replying as in maybe suddenly shes busy or something comes up you dont want her to return later and see 15 texts in a row from you.

Bombolini · 2013-03-20T04:24:02+00:00

Wow you guys really think I have the green light to escalate? I'll be honest, I thought I had some more work to do.

Can somebody say a few words on my replies? How is my flow? Is my tone consistent throughout the conversation? How about the time between each text? It's difficult to interpret what I've said because I've been thinking about it for so long.

Comments are greatly appreciated everyone. Thank you, hope this conversation helps you out in your endeavors.

Title	How is my texting game? Be as critical as you want.
Author	Bombolini
Upvotes	11
Comments	22
Date	March 20, 2013 3:47 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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