Four Ways to Improve Conversational Skills

ReliableSource · 2013-09-27T11:52:29+00:00

I think the advice is good, but I think I'd actually dislike talking to the "good example" guy. I'd probably be thinking "Oh, I look like that type of person, huh? Thanks for making assumptions about me."

I'd be much less annoyed by "Were you the kind of kid who was constantly watching the Discovery Channel?" Than "I bet you were one of those kids who was glued to the discovery channel 24/7."

2013-09-27T05:53:18+00:00

I like these tips, but I feel like the interlocutor in the successful conversations is a more lively, talkative person than in the unsuccessful ones.

Hairy_Wolverine · 2013-09-26T23:17:30+00:00

I wrote this for a non-seduction blog; I figured I would throw it up on my own and share it with you guys!

Loganville · 2013-09-27T02:26:19+00:00

Thanks man, really helps!

Curiositygun · 2013-09-27T17:33:59+00:00

my biggest problems was going from interview mode to building investment i mean it happened from time to time but i just didn't know exactly what happened in the interaction for me to repeat it on my own accord

thank you this was a great read

4J5533T6SZ9 · 2013-09-27T01:57:58+00:00

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Adam_Warlock · 2013-09-27T12:51:02+00:00

I thought you could also build rapport by messing up people's names on purpose (I guess as a neg). My thoughts have been, when you address Lauren, call her Lauraine, but if you get the chance to introduce her, introduce her properly. Then keep screwing up her name on purpose, but just lightheartedly. I could be completely wrong, so please correct me if you think I am.

boCash · 2013-09-28T09:57:01+00:00

if you say your paragraphs in real conversations, you're being 'talk about myself' guy.

azncuteo · 2013-09-27T09:56:22+00:00

I like it.

Cerenex · 2013-09-27T12:11:45+00:00

Helpful! Thank you for sharing! :)

donovanorgo · 2013-09-27T14:53:43+00:00

Jeff I gotta say man. You got some inkredible advice seriously. This article has given me a lot of konfidence seein as how i have a double date and then a party to go to on saturday night. Thanks again bro. Great tips

Hairy_Wolverine · 2013-09-27T15:17:06+00:00

I really wish people would read "How to Win Friends and Influence People"

It really gives you a great rundown with specific examples in a personal and business perspective of how to approach people and make them feel comfortable.

One big thing this article left out is being very animated. People really dig that because it shows you, yourself, are invested in the conversation and the other members.

It shows you have positive energy and you're willing to invest it for them.

Using your hands or demonstrating in some sort of acting will always spice up peoples attention and let them loosen up. You can even use this in the PUA fashion in the form of kino.

Let's just say you're telling a story of a hero you saw who knocked out a robber who stole an old lady's purse. You can become very animated and simulate the blow the hero threw and where it landed on the robber.

You can demonstrate by throwing a small slow, and precise knuckled fist onto the cheeck of your target. Builds amazing rapport and good induced kino

slurmfactory · 2013-09-27T06:08:18+00:00

Great post! I have been struggling with conversations lately even when girls are hitting on me, and watching/ hearing my roommate fuck girl after girl and the jealousy is nauseating me. Im too stuck up i guess and it ends up ruining my fun.

SmellsLikeNeon · 2013-09-27T07:05:47+00:00

If you cross post this to r/socialskills, they'll hail you as a god.

Gr8WhiteGrammarNazi · 2013-09-27T23:18:47+00:00

Dude loves English and yet somehow still horribly mangles it with the misuse of "illustrious."

Title	Four Ways to Improve Conversational Skills
Author	Hairy_Wolverine
Upvotes	387
Comments	40
Date	September 26, 2013 11:16 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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