OUTER GAME: How To Escalate On A Date

HappyJerk · 2013-12-02T16:29:18+00:00

Good article, but some of these lines are a little ballsy:

"Sorry I keep staring at your boobs/tits I can’t help myself.. can you blame me?"

I said this once during a date and it didn't get a second date ... LOL

Chris_Baratheon · 2013-12-02T18:56:08+00:00

Great tips for those looking to date. Something I've found over the years, if you're trying to just sleep with her, suggest going back to her place rather than yours. Girls generally feel more comfortable in their own bed and it'll be less likely for them to get any last minute thoughts.

Samuel-Stephen · 2013-12-02T20:57:13+00:00

"Her: Nice place, I really like it, good pick. Me: Thanks! I was thinking about just inviting you over for cheap Chinese food and sex but thought that might be too classy."

I don't see this as the best thing to say IMO.

joshsway · 2013-12-02T14:19:48+00:00

This question gets popped all the time ... here's an article on how I like to do it.

SpearOfTheDragon · 2013-12-02T21:22:47+00:00

What should I do before going for the kiss? Usually I just sit them down, close to me, and try and read them. It occured to me that my chances would be much better if I did stuff before that. All I really do are odd shoulder touches to emphasize a point. Do I hold their hand? I feel like being shot down going to hold their hand would be much more awkward than a kiss shut down.

TheSicilianDude · 2013-12-03T04:44:56+00:00

I agree with throwing in some sexual innuendo to show you aren't afraid to hit on the topic, and to show you're a sexual being... but I find his lines to be a little over-the-top. I'd suggest casually mentioning it in whatever context is appropriate at the time.

Title	OUTER GAME: How To Escalate On A Date
Author	joshsway
Upvotes	55
Comments	29
Date	December 2, 2013 2:19 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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